Opening Doors Blog
30 November 2011
In 2010 when we hosted our first Art Exhibition, it was open for one day only, the official opening being from 5-7pm. On reflection we concluded that one day did not do it justice and that a 3 day exhibition was what it truly deserved. In hindsight I must say that this decision was a good one. The display boards were delivered at 9am Monday morning and by 1pm all the work was up, very tastefully displayed by the artists responsible for guiding the patients in their work. Diane Dolan did a wonderful job coordinating this. The room looked stunning.
I sincerely believe that an occasion like the Art Exhibition is a fantastic arena by which we can celebrate our patients. Family members were all invited to view the art, enjoy a glass of wine and were entertained with gorgeous music. It is great to have an opportunity for patients to dress up and to enjoy an evening with their respective families and friends.
There were two very special musical items during the evening. Firstly, Moana played Canon D with the String Quartet from St Mary’s. This piece was a special dedication to DebbyAnne, who passed away two weeks before the Art Exhibition. DebbyAnne had been practicing with Moana for this special evening, for months. It was a lovely gesture. Denzil provided another special treat for all those present. Our resident pianist Royce accompanied Denzil as he filled the room with his rich and resounding voice. How spoilt we were to be privy to this. There were a few tears that were shed!!!
As for the art on display, it was simply an honour to view the work completed by so many over the past year. We were also very fortunate to be able to show 5 exquisite paintings of Peter Siddell, who was a very much loved member of the Opening Doors Family. Another treat was to have Peter Miller’s portrait of John Kanuta on display. To top it off we had Neal Palmer, a renown local artist, working on a piece that he was painting. It really was a feast of art.
Willy Kloeten kindly took photos during the evening. When I reviewed the prints of the evening, the one thing I was reminded of was the dedication of the Artists concerned. These wonderful people spent hours working with patients developing their pieces and then preparing the art for the exhibition. How fortunate we are at Mercy Hospice to have so many devoted volunteers in our Opening Doors Programme.
We have one more big occasion before the year ends, our annual Christmas Party. This will take place on Wednesday 14th December from 10.30 onwards. This will be a fun occasion, with a very interesting group of performers!!!
Until next time, Viv
The Art Exhibition has been the focus of Opening Doors for the last two weeks. We have dedicated two full sessions to Art only, which has been extremely productive. The Artists responsible for coordinating the patients work, have been so dedicated and have worked tirelessly on their projects. I strongly suspect that Diane Dolan has spent every conscious moment these last few weeks focused on this exciting event. Diane’s contribution has been immense. The Exhibition opens this Monday 21st November at 1pm and will remain open until 3pm on Wednesday 23rd November. We do extend an invitation to all staff and friends of Mercy Hospice. On the evening of Tuesday 22nd we are having an official opening when patients will attend with their families. It is a lovely opportunity to celebrate our patients and a chance for them to don their glad rags and embrace the occasion. Peter Yealands has kindly donated the wine, yet again, and RIPE DELI along with our wonderful volunteers, will be providing the food. We will be entertained by the St Mary’s Quartet and our pianist Royce Creamer. So do please pop in. I can guarantee you a most enjoyable evening
Last Wednesday took us to Queen Elizabeth Square to join in the festivities. Verity did a simply wonderful job to coordinate this now annual, Strawberry Festival. This is the first time that a group of patients from Opening Doors has attended; however it will be the first of many!!! We had a great time. The atmosphere was fun and light-hearted and the response from the business community was heartening. The fresh strawberries and ice cream was a delicious treat enjoyed by all and sundry!!
Brenda, one of our Opening Doors patients grabbed a bucket when she arrived at our table with her son. After a quick cup of tea and a bite of a sausage roll, donated to patients and helpers by the Two Robbies from the BREEZE BREAKFAST SHOW, she removed her wig and took to the street with her son, guiding her in her wheel chair. Thanks Brenda!!
As I write this piece I am drawn to the article in the latest LIFETIMES that sits in front of me. It is written by Rob Hitchins, who helps out from time to time at Opening Doors. Rob talks about his experience with a bucket during Hospice Week. "The generosity and willingness of this community to share with me their personal experience of Hospice, was humbling, though it seems by no means unusual. I believe volunteers everywhere, experienced, like me, a generosity of spirit and giving from people regardless of age, gender, ethnicity or means". This could well have to do with the reason why Verity and her team managed to raise over $25,000 last Wednesday at this fabulous occasion. Congratulations to you all. You certainly provided a good time for us all at Opening Doors!!
Until next time, Viv
It was simply fantastic to come back to work after a month’s holiday. However it was not something I had anticipated at all. Being in the midst of rugby mania brought a great sense of excitement to the week and this definitely contributed to the atmosphere at Opening Doors, as did the wonderful job Diane did of decorating the room in both All Black and French colours. I was greeted with such warmth by everyone and by the end of the day I was left pondering…. just ‘what is it’ that makes Opening Doors so special??
We have such a dynamic team, who are passionate about their work and wanting to make a real difference to patient’s lives. Patients are embraced and made to feel welcome with a sincerity and compassion beyond the call of duty. Those involved in the programme genuinely enjoy being there. They are completely committed to our goal to provide the best possible experience for the patients.
I sat back at the end of two days and thought how proud I am of what Mercy Hospice provides. We truly embrace our patients. We give them a haven, a place to unwind and to meet new people in beautiful surroundings. With the change of scenery comes a place of friendship, support, relaxation and refreshment. However the thing that stuck out the most for me on my return was the wonderful energy in our staff and the FUN we have. We look for any opportunity to laugh. Laughter truly is food for the soul.
Yes it really is great to be back at work. A place where we all make a difference.
Until next time, Viv
How very privileged we are, to have Sir Peter Siddell, as one of our patients. Peter's paintings are presently being exhibited at Lopdell House in Titirangi. Last Wednesday we organised a group of patients to travel to Titirangi and view the exhibition. We were in for such a treat. Twenty five of us from Mercy Hospice, gathered at Lopdell House at 11am and our special guide for the day was none other than the man himself. (You can only imagine how excited one local lady was, when she arrived at the venue with her daughter, and "viola", there was Peter!!! She thought all her Christmases had come at once. She hung off the back of our group for the whole of the time we were at Lopdell House and then followed us to Siren's Café where she eventually cornered Peter and asked him to sign a copy of his book of paintings she had just purchased!!)
It was amazing to get an insight into Peter's work, some of which he had not seen for over 40 years. We went around each of his works and he explained techniques, special times and places that have made an impact on his life, ideas behind the paintings and the artistic licence he has used when painting over the 45 years of his career. Peter is so eloquent and was a superb guide. It truly was a morning we could celebrate the wonderful talent of a much treasured patient.
And yes, I would recommend Siren's Café in South Titirangi Rd. They looked after us beautifully, the food was scrumptious and the coffee divine!!
This year we have made quite a point of having speakers after lunch. It is a time we encourage patients to sit down and relax. Speakers are invited to talk for about 10 minutes and we try to cover an interesting array of topics. Kate Kempthorne spoke about Naturopathy and Acupuncture, and Sir Margaret Timms came to tell her story. We had Luke Bettesworth, a Grooming and Fashion Stylist, Alice Worsley, and a very interesting visit by David Slack from Radio who brought his daughter and a friend to perform a delightful dance, based on a talk about Teaching Styles!!
Patients and Volunteers alike have really enjoyed these sessions. This week on both days, Carol, our wonderful Clinical Nurse, took front stage and spoke with Patients about the care that Mercy Hospice offers to its Patients. Carol began with an introduction of the 4 main areas of need introduced originally by Elisabeth Kubler Ross. She discussed the patient's needs in the Physical, Emotional, Spiritual and Intellectual realms. This began a most interesting discussion that eventually led to the conclusion of how is necessary to have a good self worth, and to value and respect yourself and others. This was a most powerful conversation and it was beautifully and most professionally conducted by Carol. How very fortunate we are to have Carol as part of our team. She has such a wealth of knowledge and experience and this impacts greatly on how she works in the Opening Doors Programme. The delicate issues both of a medical and personal nature that she has to deal with, are always handled in the most professional and thorough way. And to top it off she is so much fun to work with, always ready to see the humorous side of a situation. We are truly blessed!!
Sometimes we need to stop and take heed, and to realise the wonderful people we are surrounded by!!
Until next time, Viv
12 July 2011
How lucky we are to have Eliane as a staff member when it comes to Bastille Day. The Marseilleise was practiced many a time under her tutorage, and by midday Tuesday, we were singing it like true professionals!Our celebration of Bastille Day was on Tuesday 12th. It all became a little complicated if we were to celebrate it again on the Wednesday (a long Story). Needless to say Bastille Day was on Thursday 14th, confused?
Diane and I looked something again, dressed up as French Chamber maids, however Diane spent no time at all in the boudoir, and she was in the kitchen all morning with a team of volunteers creating a fabulous array of French delicacies. Morning tea consisted of ham and brie croissants. For lunch the patients were spoilt with individual servings of Cassoleut, along with mushroom and bacon stuffed choux pastries. When it came to dessert, crepes filled with fresh fruit, berry coulis, and fresh cream adorned the plates. A glass of Sileni Syrah was a nice compliment to the meal. Herschile and Lynn entertained us all morning with French music and Eliane came in just before lunch to sing the national anthem.
During the morning we had Barbara from the Beadhold making necklaces with patients in Red White and Blue!! All and all, it was a thoroughly enjoyable morning, full of fun and frivolity.
Next week we have a wonderful opportunity to celebrate one of our better known patients. The wonderful Peter Siddell has his work being exhibited at Lopdell House in Titirangi, for the months of July and August. We have a trip organised to visit the exhibition and Peter has promised to be our guide. How lucky are we! We have booked into a Café afterwards for a cuppa and a bite to eat. Exciting stuff!
Until next time, Viv
1 July 2011
Thought I would use this opportunity to continue the saga of last edition… Where were we??
We had thought that everything was in place and DebbyAnne, our stranded patient in Christchurch, was going to be flown home at 10 o’clock, the morning of the Mighty Mercy Awards. Air New Zealand had done a fantastic job. The planets seemed to be aligned and all was looking hot!!
I woke the next morning to a text from Ziggy, our brilliant volunteer, who works for Air NZ and played such an important part in getting DebbyAnne a seat. His text read “Not looking good for Air New Zealand. All flights cancelled until 12 midday when another announcement will be made!!”
Panic !!!
Our morning was extremely busy, collecting the PA system, decorating the room, (after negotiating with “Party Mad” and getting a great deal!!) and attending to last minute detail. At 12 o’clock I spoke to Shelley at Air NZ. She informed me that Air NZ had resumed flying but it was out of her control at Public Relations to prioritise seating. The earliest flight that Shelley at Air NZ could get DebbyAnne on was one that arrived in Auckland at 9.30pm. TOO LATE!!! At that stage I rang DebbyAnne and advised her to get to the airport ASAP. Once there, I advised her that it was now on her plate. She took on this role with the mark of a professional. Meantime I texted everyone I knew, to see if they knew of anyone, who was flying Air NZ that day and was prepared to give up their ticket for a later flight.
DebbyAnne approached the staff at ground level, shared her story and they showed great compassion and booked her on the next flight!! We were kept up with her movements, right the way through, so once she arrived at Auckland Airport, we had arranged our lovely Volunteer, Carol Lambert, to collect her and drive her straight to Mercy Hospice.
Meanwhile Paul Holmes, who was MC for the night, had been looking forward to seeing DebbyAnne, as she had been the reason he had agreed to come along to the event. At 6.45 though Paul had stayed all he could and said he was going. He suggested I get DebbyAnne to ring him. As I saw him to his car, who should come in the driveway but DebbyAnne!!! I took her to Paul’s car and they did manage to chat for a few minutes. Needless to say DebbyAnne won the AIR NEW ZEALAND IN THE NICK OF TIME AWARD!!
What an evening!! It was full of fun and frivolity. We have some great photos!!
The photo that probably would take first prize was the photo of DebbyAnne sprawled out on the piano, next to the candelabra, in a ballet pose, with a well earned glass of red wine.
Until next time, Viv
16 June 2011
We have spent much of the last two weeks organising The Mighty Mercy Awards. Patients, staff and Volunteers alike, are all looking forward to the event to be held on Thursday evening.
The only reason we have Paul Holmes as MC is because, DebbyAnne befriended him at the Auckland Seafood Festival and suggested I ring him when we were looking for a Host for the evening. Paul was very obliging and keen to do this for DebbyAnne and Mercy Hospice.
It so happened last weekend DebbyAnne's daughter was married in Christchurch. The wedding itself was a gorgeous affair and highly emotional given DebbyAnne's circumstances. However she didn't bargain for the erupting of the Chilean Volcano or the series of strong earthquakes that hit the region, over the weekend.
Unfortunately Jetstar was her choice of airline and they have cancelled all their flights indefinitely!! So DebbyAnne is stranded in Christchurch. That is until now!! I was getting rather anxious today with the event being tomorrow so I thought I might look at a plan B. (It would be awkward having Paul Holmes here without the star attraction!!).
I rang Air New Zealand and requested that they transport DebbyAnne back to Auckland given the circumstances. The long and the short of it is that Air New Zealand has come to the party and will get DebbyAnne back to Auckland in time for the Mighty Mercies. (Volunteer Ziggy Bruu, who works for ANZ played a major part in this!!).
Diane Dolan and Sara O'Brien have spent hours on the Audio Visuals and the final product is fantastic. We have managed to organise the use of a PA system supplied by Hirepool, so all is in order.
The ball will start to roll at 4pm tomorrow, with wine supplied by Yealands Estate and canopies made by volunteers and staff. We are expecting about 50 people and plan to begin formalities just before 5pm.
Tune in next week for a run down on the evening!!
Viv.
In November last year we had a wonderful Art Exhibition, which truly was a great occasion, giving the patients an opportunity to celebrate themselves, along with family and friends. One beautiful piece of work that was not finished at the time has now been completed by coordinator Jo Walsh. Last Wednesday Jo came in with her husband to present the final product – a magnificent mosaic mirror. It has been a huge project for Jo, arranging all the pieces donated by patients, to create a stunning effect
The mirror presently hangs in the Day room, so do take time to have a look and enjoy the beauty.
Peter Miller, yet another of our fantastic artists, who volunteers his time freely every week, has painted an absolutely awesome picture of John Kanuta. It stands over a metre twenty high, and is just as wide. It is truly a spectacular work of Art. Not too sure where this will reside but do watch this space.
It has been business as usual at Opening Doors. Diane, my amazing assistant has been away in Argentina for a break so I took on the duties of ringing patients. As interest in the programme grows, the list of people, both Patients and Volunteers, grows with it. It is rather an overwhelming task to ring all involved and to coordinate transport. Diane does this so beautifully every week and has put some great systems into place which make the process so much easier. I enjoyed my two weeks of coordinating this side of the programme. It was also a good chance to have a quick chat with every patient, and to catch up with where they were at.
The Music programme continues to develop, last week the patients had further opportunities with, the violin, a few had a play on the piano, plus the cello was an option as was the bongo drums!!! It just continues to get better and better.
Our preparation for the Mighty Mercy Awards is coming along. Paul Holmes has confirmed and the evening is starting to take shape. More later...
Viv.
Our bi-annual Pamper Me Day went off well with 10 alternative therapists lending a hand at Opening Doors to consult with patients on a one to one basis. Patients really appreciated the opportunity to speak about possible ways of improving their quality of life.
On Wednesday 13th May we had a small group of St Mary’s girls join us at lunchtime, with their musical instruments in tow. Rachel Snelling, the head of Music at St Mary’s has agreed to bring the girls over on a regular basis, so that patients can learn how to play the various instruments in the orchestra. What a treat it was, to walk into the room and to see David, Debby-Anne, and Moana plucking violins, as the girls accompanied them on their own instruments. Again this week we had the girls return and further tutoring took place.
The College of Camille girls were kept exceptionally busy this week with 25 patients in attendance. It is always so special to have these students pampering the patients; barriers are broken and new bounds are made. It is always a special time.
On Wednesday we took the patients for an outing to watch “Water For Elephants” and then we proceeded downstairs to the Riva Café in Mission Bay for lunch where we were treated to a delicious array of goodies. A nice change!!
Looking forward somewhat, do keep Thursday 16th June free. We have a special event planned for patients called the Mighty Mercy Awards. More later!!!
Viv
The Easter break was appreciated by one and all, however with the extra day's holiday, we had a full house on Wednesday, with nearly 30 patients attending Opening Doors. A number of our therapists were still away, due to the School Holidays, so it was proving rather difficult to coerce "anyone" to cut hair, trim nails or massage!!
We decided to change the whole orientation of the day, making ART, the focus. We set up the room with two large tables in the middle and the fabulously creative Diane Dolan had our guests contemplating how they were going to produce an art piece based on the theme of HEARTS.
Well what an amazing array of talented and skilled patients we have. Woven, painted, printed and collaged hearts were the outcome of this exercise. Beautiful words and verses, pertaining to the heart, surrounded the art work. This was so successful at many levels, patients clearly enjoyed the activity, and what more some found themselves sharing at quite a deep level.
Once back in the office I went through all the requests in the WISH BOX. We do promote this, and encourage patients to ask for their special something. I was thrilled to see it had been well used.
It proved to be a profitable afternoon with:- David's wish for motorbike lessons ( Passrite Driving School)
- Stanley's wish for a Lamborghini ride (Giltraps)
- DebbyAnne's wish for a Mother of the Bride outfit (Trelise Cooper)
..all being granted through the generosity of those mentioned above.
We are still working on a motorised scooter for Valerie and a chance for Helen Scott to see champion Netballer, Geva Mentor, play.
Next week is our bi annual Pamper Me Day. We have 10 therapists who will consult on a one to one basis with Patients. Our line up of consultants is impressive with a Reiki specialist, an Oncology Dietician, Make up Therapist, Stylist, Colour Specialist, Kinesiologist, Pilates practitioner, Naturopath, Acupuncturist ,Reflexologist, and an Ayer Vedic Medicine practitioner all coming in for the morning. Also available, will be the pampering skills of the students from College of Camille.
It should be a fun day,
Viv
We have been lucky enough to have two groups of students from the Elite School of International Beauty through our doors, plus another group from The College of Camille, all in the last week. Patients have so totally enjoyed being spoilt and pampered and the girls in turn have found the experience so rewarding.
As each group arrives I sit them down and we have a chat about Hospice. Often, the students have not had any association with people at this stage of life, and they do find the thought of it challenging. However at the end of the day it is a different story. Connections have been made and relationships formed. The time these budding therapists spend with patients is precious, and they leave our grounds with a sense of satisfaction and gratitude.
If you remember, last year we invited a number of artists to Opening Doors. Using different art mediums, these talented individuals worked with patients, creating amazing art pieces, which we exhibited at a fabulous function in November. This year, we are looking at doing something similar with Music. I spoke to Rachel Snelling who is Head of Music at St Mary's. We worked on the idea, firstly, of trying to encourage relationships between patients and students from St Mary's. We thought this would be best achieved by inviting the girls to meet the patients in an informal set up. We managed this, last week, when the girls popped in just after lunch to give us a quick item. Following this we spoke to the patients about our plan to teach them how to play instruments in the orchestra, with a long term goal of having a concert. The response was simply unprecedented. The patients loved the idea and then informed us of the instruments they play and how they would be ready to contribute. Two or three were really keen to learn the violin and then others suggested we ask the Percussion Group at St Mary's to come along and share their knowledge and talents.
What we envisage is a set up where students will teach patients, mostly in a one to one situation. Patients would learn about the instruments, and how to play a basic tune. Before you know it, we will be selling tickets to a grand End of the Year Concert!!! Like anything at Mercy Hospice, the sky is the limit!!!
The ingredients are all there. We have the girls, the brilliant Teacher, enthusiastic patients, (with talents of their own to share), time, energy and a determination to make it work.
I will keep you posted, Viv
Words are never quite adequate when it comes to describing Race For Life. People are giving in all directions and at so many levels to support our patients, it is totally overwhelming.
Let me begin by saying that this event is not just something that happens overnight, it has been the focus of a group of ten dedicated people since September. In order for Race For Life to run we needed to raise $14,000 in donations, and with the support of some very key committed and loyal supporters this was achieved.
At the end of our fantastic day I got an influx of comments from everyone involved asking if they can return again next year. These included people who drove cars, rode motorbikes, coordinated the helicopter, helped with catering, supported people into cars, maintained cars, organised the track, coordinated equipment, looked after health and safety matters, made coffees.. the list truly goes on and on.
I feel I can never do justice to all these people. But do you know what? They honestly do not concern themselves with the need for recognition; they are predominately there to ensure patients experience an incredible day. Giltrap Prestige, provided three mini buses to take us to Pukekohe, and five exotic cars that gave patients a fantastic cruise around Pukekohe in style. Andrew, a car driver approached me on a massive high and said "it was a privilege being involved, I received so much joy talking with and helping patients, it was a humbling and totally rewarding experience".
The absolute highlight of the day was the Harley Davidsons. Seeing the smiles on everyone's faces who attended left me with no doubt that this day of magical moments, like each year, will be remembered and many stories will be retold.
Until next time, Viv
Here it is the 2nd week of March and only now am I sitting down to write my first Mercy Peek article for the year. First, I must apologise for not doing so earlier.
As I go through my diary I see that we have been busy and living life to the full. We began the year with a hiss and a roar on Feb 8th, with a gorgeous BBQ for lunch. The weather was superb and all patients were suitably impressed with the Al Fresco style of eating. The following day we did exactly the same, with the Wednesday patients, and again the day was thoroughly enjoyed by one and all. The meat was supplied by a dear friend of mine who works in packaging and of course, was the best of quality.
Patients have really enjoyed reconnecting; many in fact remained in contact with one another over the Christmas break. Such are the bonds that have been made in our special group.
On Feb 22 we took a group of patients to see the Kings Speech at the Berkeley, Mission Bay and shared a delightful picnic at Mission Bay Park (Dennis kindly transported the chairs from MHA, so comfort was not compromised). All the patients appreciated the opportunity for an outing and as such they were not disappointed.
We have been busily beavering away, organising events that will be taking place later in the year. It is fantastic to have Diane Dolan on board this year. Diane coordinates the Transport of patients to Opening Doors and is also working an extra day. This frees me to work on projects or special requests of the patients. I am presently working on a wonderful event for David Ruddle and his daughter Suzannah. David approached me a few weeks ago and said that he realised he would not be around for Suzannah's wedding (Suzannah is 17), and furthermore he realised he would not be able to dance with her at her wedding. So he said that they had planned to simulate the situation and they asked me if I could help. WELL….. by the time he had finished speaking my mind was going at about 100 miles per hour.
What David would like for Suzannah is footage of them dancing together so that when she does get married in the future, they can show the footage of David and Suzannah dancing.
So... How has this panned out???
We now have a fully organised wedding, minus a groom and a celebrant!!!
Suzannah will be dressed in a beautiful gown supplied by Jenny's Bridal, her nails will be done by Niki at Beautopia, and her hair will be styled by Diane Cochrane, her makeup applied by Mac Cosmetics. David will be dressed by Frank Casey's and groomed by Diane Cochrane. They will be collected by Ross from First Class Classics on Thursday and taken to Mantell's in Westhaven where they will be greeted by their family and friends. The music background for the event will be supplied by Jonny Love and they will dance to MY WISH, having been tutored by dance teacher Brian Jones from Dancing with Stars fame. They will be presented with flowers from Wildpoppies and the staff and Volunteers from Opening Doors will do the catering for the event. TV3 had wanted to cover the event but have had to cancel because of the Christchurch Earthquake. However Woman's Day has picked up the story and will run with it. Peter Miller will take photos and Photo Warehouse will develop the photos. Richard Hodges one of our Volunteers will film the event, so that Suzannah will always have the memory of Dancing with her Dad.
It is so exciting to be involved with this occasion and I find it simply amazing how many businesses and individuals will give their time for Hospice.
Until next time, Viv
We began the year with a few outings and a number of Cordon Bleu BBQ's and on every occasion the weather obliged. Our trips to Devonport on the ferry were great fun, Kerena at Fullers was most accommodating as were the Cafe owners on the Devonport wharf who spoilt us with extra chairs and coffees. A group ventured off one Tuesday to The Breeze Radio Station where the Two Robbies showered them with giveaways and a tour of the Radio Station. The Race for Life was an absolutely fantastic affair, this event just gets better and better each year. The committee for the 2011 event have been meeting for 3 months already!! We had two major Pamper Me Days that patients seem to really enjoy. These days give them a chance to sample therapies and consult with Therapists whose practices are alternative.
We made two visits to Eden Gardens, on the way taking in the beauty and majesty of Florence Court, thanks to the generosity of Alma Sax. Mid Year we had the traditional Mid Year Christmas Party. This is an event which is greatly enjoyed by all involved and certainly a great excuse to dress up. This did get me thinking about the further need for Patients to have an excuse to dress in their glad rags!! The art I saw being produced through the guidance of our wonderful artists at Opening Doors, made me realise we needed to share what was being produced and what better way than to have an Art Exhibition. This as you all know was a wonderful success and quite a privilege to experience.
We had some gorgeous guests this year including the gregarious Alice Worsley and the dynamic Sir Peter Leitch. BBQ's were held on both occasions and the weather yet again, obliged.
A fabulous development in our programme this year was the introduction of the Sharing Group. Thanks to Tim and his team, these meetings provided well guided opportunities for patients to share their views on sensitive issues. The feedback from patients on these meetings was nothing but positive. We look forward to continuing these groups in 2011.
Week by week Opening Doors provided Massage, Nail Therapy, Hairdressing, Music and Art and every week volunteers provided these treatments along with helping with domestic needs and needs of the patients. The emphasis always being on FUN!!!
At the Christmas Party today I reflected on how Opening Doors had changed so many lives, including my own. It really is a privilege to work with these wonderful people, both the patients and the volunteers. There was a list of over 40 people I had to thank for todays event alone. As Jan pointed out in her speech today, the patients at Mercy Hospice do teach us how to live in the moment and to appreciate everything we have in this life. This is a gift they give us all.
Wishing you all a very Happy Christmas, Viv
20 October 2010
The Wish List box has had plenty of use of late. Over the last week we have had three patients who have gone on special adventures. Lily had a wonderful overnight surprise with her son Miller. Ross Stewart from First Class Classics took them on a tiki-tour of Auckland Central and then dropped them at the Hotel De Brett. After dropping their bags in their VIP room, Ross chauffeured them to Portside Restaurant and Bar for a delicious lunch. They were dropped back to the hotel for a rest and then were taxied to Grand Harbour Restaurant for dinner. The Hotel provided them with Breakfast, then Miho, who works with us at Opening Doors, arrived to give Lily a one hour massage. Ross then returned to pick them up and take them home. In all it was a totally enjoyable and much appreciated break for Lily.
Elaine took off to Rotorua for the weekend with her sister. Her request was to spoil her sister to an afternoon at the Polynesian Spa. An experience they thoroughly enjoyed. Wylie Court provided the accommodation and Indigo Cafe hosted them to a delicious lunch. The Spa experience was something Elaine had wanted to do for a long time.
Thirdly Moana and her two children were guests to Catherine and Ross Beech at their Rural Home-stay in Taupo over the weekend. In fact they only returned on Tuesday having left on Friday morning. They managed to visit a number of exciting places including Lava Glass, The Volcanic centre, Mini Golf, The Barbary Yacht, and even a visit to the mountain as the children had never seen snow before. They ate out three times in Taupo, in fact were thoroughly spoilt. Catherine Beech was simply wonderful in all she did for Moana and her family over the weekend. Quite extraordinary generosity shown by Catherine and her husband Ross.
June has a trip to Raglan planned in the first week of November and we have a special treat lined up for David Ruddle. I love this side of Opening Doors as I am privy to the amazing generosity and kindness shown by so many...plus the overwhelming appreciation and joy experienced by the patients.
Until next time, Viv
Peter Miller heard about Mercy Hospice through a volunteer and decided that he would like to take a look for himself. He has been coming along to Opening Doors for about 5 weeks now, talking with patients and slowly but surely working on a creative idea he wants to develop with patients. Peter is an incredibly gifted artist, his painting skills are exquisite. Presently he is working on portraits encouraging patients to embellish photographs with all types of different media. The response from patients is so positive and the end products so unique. We are also very fortunate to have Helena Blair join us working with patients on a pastel and paint mural. Diane Dolan is doing wonders with HANDS, plus we have tiles and a Mosaic piece in the making. Patients are also presently decorating a bust with beads and jewels with the help of the lovely ladies at Beadhold. It is fantastic to see this work in progress and people finding their creative side.
Last week I wrote to Peter Yealands asking him if he would support our Art Exhibition on the 24th Nov and he has kindly agreed to provide wine for all those who attend on the night. The Siddells have accepted an invitation to attend and Neal Palmer, a local artist, has kindly offered to work on a piece throughout the night, showing people different painting techniques. Music will be provided by two cello players, Sophia and Cameron, who are wonderfully talented.
Isn't amazing what a difference good weather makes!! Last week we managed to sit outside for the first time in a long time!!
How fortunate it was to have organised to go to Eden Gardens on such a fantastic week. My dear friend Suellen and her husband Ian, own the Bloom Cafe at Eden Gardens and they provided a scrumptious lunch for all in attendance. There were 30 of us who enjoyed the ambiance on Tuesday. The Gardens looked beautiful with many of the spring flowers blooming and to be spoilt with home cooking, (Suellen is the original Earth Mother) and great company, certainly made the occasion, one to remember.
With such a good forecast for the rest of the week we decided to have a BBQ on Wednesday. The Patients were pampered throughout the morning and then presented with a Cordon Bleu meal of marinated chicken, roast veggie salad, fresh green salad and hot bread rolls. Yes, there were sausages too!! Roll on summer!!
Until next time, Viv
24 September 2010
This week we had the opportunity to celebrate Chinese Mid Autumn Festival.
Considering the fact that we have three Chinese patients in our Tuesday programme, we thought it appropriate to acknowledge this festival. Cat was fantastic to have filled me in on the finer details of the occasion and even went to the trouble of purchasing Mooncakes for the patients to sample and lanterns to adorn the room. Teina helped out by organising the projection of a UTube item about the festival, for all to see. It was a fabulous team effort that also involved Derek who ingeniously managed to get the screen into working order.
The Chinese patients were very grateful for the trouble we went to. The gorgeous Richard has now offered to cook us all Spring Rolls for next week's Opening Doors.
Our Art work for the Exhibition on the 24th is chugging along well. We have Diane D working away at HANDS, Miranda creating a collage of pictures, Becks from Beadhold working on a bust of jewellery(??), Peter creating amazing images with photographic portraits, Helena developing pastel drawings of flowers and butterflies to be made into a mosiac of colour, Nicola doing Kiwiana tiles and possibly some work with mosaics is on the cards. It is an exciting time and the event itself on the 24th will be a wonderful excuse for patients to celebrate themselves and don their glad rags.
Until next time, Viv
9 September 2010
Thank goodness for Pat's Celebration Party!!!
Not too sure who was responsible for the gorgeous decorations for Pat's party on Sunday 29th August but they were so appreciated by the Opening Doors patients for 4 sessions!! How fortunate that we had a birthday to celebrate each session, the decorations contributed much to the festivities.
On Tuesday the 1st September we were able to present Elaine G with her special birthday wish, which was to travel to Rotorua and be treated to a deluxe treatment at the Polynesian Spa. Elaine wanted to thank her sister for all she had done for her. It was nice to be able to throw in a meal at Indigo Cafe and a night at Wylie Court Motel, for good measure.
Wednesday 2nd of Sept was Joan's 80th birthday. Eileen her daughter joined us for the morning along with the family pet, to celebrate the occasion. This week we had celebrations for Pauline on Tuesday and Marc on Wednesday (Father's Day) who turned 40. On Saturday a group of 10 Racing Car drivers took Marc and several of his friends around Pukekohe race course at speeds of 250kms per hour. They had a hoot!! A BBQ lunch was enjoyed by all. The drivers again were so very generous with their time, petrol and cars, though I do not doubt it for a minute, that they were all having the time of their lives.
On November 24th, 5pm-7pm we will be holding an Art Exhibition of Patients work at Opening Doors. Diane Dolan has spent a great deal of time with patients working on HANDS, the pieces that have resulted are fantastic. A number of local Artists have shown interest in being a part of this event and are keen to guide patients as they work on individual and group projects.
So there will be a greater concentration on Art and Craft in the next little while, with the outcome being an entertaining and enjoyable night on the 24th November.
Until next time, Viv
26 August 2010
We were thoroughly spoilt last week with a visit on Tuesday from The College of Camille students; this was followed the next day by a contingent of 10 girls from the Elite International School of Beauty. Patients were pampered in every which way and students had the luxury of spending quality time with patients, due to the fact there were so many students in attendance. These two beauty schools have been very loyal to Opening Doors, the students are always very respectful and their work very professional.
Musical treats greeted us all on Tuesday morning when Gerald Van Waardenberg and his friend Maria entertained us with a range of duets for flute and viola. Sometimes we are privileged to share the talents of our patients and recently we had a double dose on the very same day, with the gorgeous Leah on the piano accordion and her friend Marie, on the piano. All those present enjoyed a sing song which created a very relaxed and happy atmosphere.
What have been extremely successful at Opening Doors of late is the informal trivia questions we throw at patients. Throw being the operative word!! Patients have to catch the chocolate they have won after answering the question correctly!! Trivia moments are always spontaneous and usually only last for about 5 minutes. However patients have really grown to enjoy the occasions and look forward to a chocolate travelling in their general direction. (Just for your information Bill D wins the "I KNOW THE MOST TRIVIA" prize with Robert, our Chaplain, being a close second!!)
We have a few birthdays coming up in the next few weeks, Marc H turns 40 on the Sept 5th and Joan will turn 80 on the 1st. Joan shares her birthday with Elaine G and Pauline E is a few days later on the 7th. Lots of celebrating in store!!
Until next time, Viv
11 August 2010
Again this week I would like to dedicate my blog to the wonderful work of the volunteers at the Opening Doors Programme.
Fingers had been crossed for rather a long time, in the hope of receiving some complimentary tickets for the stage production of Grease. By Thursday afternoon 40 tickets were in my hot little hands!! We were given tickets to two shows on Sunday. The patients who attended were full of praise for this very professional production, especially Lynette and Alex who had especially requested to see this show!!
Last week we had a very pleasant trip to Florence Court and Eden Gardens. Alma Sax, of Florence Court very graciously took us through the downstairs area of her fabulous home. Unfortunately the weather was rather dismal and the rain started to fall just as we arrived at the Sax residence. However the weather did not dim our spirits at all, as we toured through this rather majestic home. We left Alma at about 11.15am and made our way up the road to Eden Gardens. A good friend of mine has just taken over the ownership of the cafe, "Bloom". Suellen and her husband Ian put on a gorgeous spread for us, even making a cake for our new patient Dina, whose birthday it was the day before. Once lunch was finished some patients ventured through the gardens while others chose to sit and chat in the gorgeous surrounds. The day was even more enjoyable than expected.
This week was a sad week when two of our patients from Opening Doors died. Mr Wang and Joy and for two very different reasons they were unable to speak. Mr Wang speech was difficult because of the language barrier and Joy because of Motor Neurone Disease. However these two were both very much loved at Opening Doors and will be sadly missed. Sometimes we don't need words to communicate with others.
Diane Dolan has been working on a very special project at Opening Doors for the last month and the products have been sensational. The common factor is HANDS !! Watch this space...
Until next time, Viv
2 July 2010
Again this week I would like to dedicate my blog to the wonderful work of the volunteers at the Opening Doors Programme.
The Food:
Caroline L made 40 Xmas mince pies. Brenda V, Diane D, Diana P and Alex W were each asked to cook a plate of roasted vegetables to cater for 40 people. Roger prepared the Ham. Everything else was purchased at the supermarket and prepared and presented magnificently by the team of volunteers beavering away in the kitchen all morning. It was a delicious feast enjoyed thoroughly by one and all.
Neelam, one of our patients prepared an Indian curry dish , this contrasted well with the traditional Xmas Ham and roast vegetables. For dessert patients were treated to Pavlova, berry couli and cream.
The Entertainment:
17 year old Paddy Leishman entertained us with three songs to begin the morning. Opening Doors Xmas Parties would not be the same without the talented Paddy. He has been singing at these events for over 2 years now.
Once Paddy had finished, our very own Derek, played a number of background numbers and then we proceeded into the Christmas Carols. The volunteers (who were not in the kitchen at the time) united in song, and presented a fabulous rendition of "We Wish you a Merry Christmas".
As patients were being served their dinner, The St Mary's Choir, arrived to sing an array of songs, including a few Christmas numbers!!
The Decorations:
Maureen G is a new patient who happens to have a son in law who owns a Party Decoration Company. So yes, the room looked absolutely fantastic with all the decorations for the tables and surrounds provided by Ron, Margaret's Son in law. Ron and his staff spent a good hour and a half yesterday afternoon decorating the room with a wonderful balloon display and then again this morning, Christa, his assistant, was back with table centre pieces.
My sister in law Stephanie C was responsible for all the Santas strategically placed all over the Day room and at the Hospice front entrance. Steph is an extremely talented woman and makes each and every one of the santas herself.
So a break down of the day fully portrays the point that these events would just not happen, if it were not for the expertise and generosity of volunteers. How fortunate we are....
Until next time, Viv
16 June 2010
I have been preoccupied these last few weeks with a special trip we are organising for Marc and his family.
Once a year we plan to tick off a 'biggie' from a patient's bucket list, and this is the one for 2010: Marc, his wife Rachel, four year old daughter and 16 year old son will venture down to Queenstown early July. Thanks to Air New Zealand they will be flying down free of charge. They have been supplied with a mobility vehicle while in the South and a nurse will be with them free of charge for their entire stay (actually my sister!!). They will be staying at Peppers Beacon Hotel for three nights and will participate in every tourist attraction known to mankind, thanks to Destination Queenstown who will be their hosts. The trip has been timed in conjunction with the Queenstown Winter Festival so should be a heap of fun and yes probably cold....but hey!!!
While in Queenstown, Marc and family will venture over to Wanaka for two thrilling days at the Adventure Park in Cardrona. They will be dog sledding with huskies, riding on Monster trucks and Marc may even get an opportunity to experience the Southern Hemisphere Proving Grounds (where new cars, not yet on the market, are tested in snow conditions). They will be staying at the gorgeous Wanaka Springs Lodge, with Lyn and Murray being their hosts.
Marc and his family will have lunch at the historical Cardrona Pub. We are presently working on two restaurants for the evening meals.
This is so exciting for the family and what memories are made of. It has been so exhilarating to be part of planning process. It really is amazing to witness the generosity of so many – a very huge thank you to all our supporters and sponsors who are helping us to make this happen.
Until next time, Viv
2 June 2010
Every six months I enjoy the privilege to share what we do at Opening Doors with the new group of Volunteers. As I watch the DVD's with those present, I feel immensely proud of what Mercy Hospice is doing for their patients.
As I point out each time, none of this would happen if it were not for the volunteers. The amount of time they give to the Opening Doors programme is astounding. Every Tuesday and Wednesday we have a hairdresser, a massage therapist, a musician, an artist, and a nail therapist who all share their talents with patients who are ever so grateful. This is not to mention the volunteers, who come in weekly to organize morning teas, and lunch for patients within the programme.
We can often get complacent about what is being said by patients receiving the therapies. However this week, I was struck with just how any patients were expressing their thanks for what is being done for them. Neelam brought in a sample of her latest curry, for me to taste, so that she could gage whether it was mild enough to serve to all patients. ( yes she intends to make lunch for all patients in a few weeks time). Elaine said how she thought it would be a great idea if TVNZ came in to see what happens at Opening Doors so people realize that Hospice is not the end but the start of a different journey. Helen Scott and her son ran a raffle outside of Hospice and raised over $300, just to express their thanks and provide a way to give back. John said today that his life had totally opened up since he had been coming to Opening Doors, he had been on a boat to Devonport, toured The Breeze Radio Station, been driven around Pukekohe at 250km per hour and been taken from Mechanics Bay to Pukekohe in a helicopter, all in 4 months!! Almost every week Pat Reddy brings some home baking to contribute to our morning tea, just because she wants to.... There are many more examples and it is not until we sit down and think about do we realize just how much our service is appreciated.
Yes, it certainly is a privilege to work for MHA.
Until next time, Viv
19 May 2010
We are just going to have to concentrate on this week at Opening Doors as last week is a blurr!! This is no doubt due to how busy we have been this week!!
Every 6 months at Opening Doors we put on a full on Pamper Me Day. This day differs from any other because of the nature of how this day works. Patients often do not get a chance to consult with therapists who practice alternative medicines so we use this day as an opportunity for patients to listen, on a one to one basis to consultants who have something different to offer. This week we had a Colour therapist, a kinesiologist, a reflexologist, a lady who practices Ayervedic Medicine, a Colour and Style specialist, a Naturopath, and for good measure an Oncology Dietican from Ascot Hospital. The girls from College of Camille did the pampering along with Toni Briden who 'made up' all those interested, using Nutrimetics. All patients present on the day received a gorgeous tulip provided by Wildpoppies, and a scrumptious lunch. It was really a most enjoyable day and one where patients discovered other means of improving their quality of life. Images of the day were captured by Charlton, from Photographers Inc , who popped down for an hour to provide us with beautiful memories of a very special day.
Wednesday was an interesting day. We began Opening Doors as per usual, but with a Nursing Education course on site and an intended lunch for ADHB members at 1pm, we decided it best to vacate the premises and took Opening Doors, patients and volunteers in tow, to the Cavalier for lunch. What a treat!! (Great idea Julie!!). The patients thoroughly enjoyed the change of venue, the food and the ambience. We were treated to a delicious lunch of savouries, spring rolls, french fries, and gourmet sandwiches, followed by a plate of lamingtons!! The patients were delighted.
So all in all, a great week, where patients who attended were treated to something a little bit different.
Until next time, Viv
6 May 2010
At Opening Doors, we are trying continually to improve the service we provide for our patients, as is the way in all areas of Mercy Hospice work. Over the last few weeks we have introduced what we now refer to as the Sharing group, (for want of a better name). It has been observed over the last, almost three years, that there are certainly a number of patients who want to talk and hear about issues affecting their lives at this time. By establishing this group, we have provided a forum where patients can discuss delicate issues, in a safe arena, with qualified staff. The manner in which this is being achieved is certainly a work in progress, and over the last few weeks we have realised the need for more structure and guidelines to help the discussion to move in areas that will be helpful to the patients concerned. We are very fortunate to have the expertise on the staff, who can direct these meetings so that the experience is rewarding.
Dada from Ananda Marga in Grey Lynn has been helping out at Opening Doors since it began in Oct 2008. Unfortunately Dada has been transferred to a Yoga Retreat in the Blue Mountains and will no longer be able to join us on a Tuesday. Patients will sadly miss his presence and his skills as they found the visualisation and meditation most helpful. We are working on a replacement.
On Tuesday this week, Tracey Smith from Mary Potter Hospice came to visit us at Opening Doors to see how the programme runs. It was great to have Tracey there for the day and to chat about what is happening at Mary Potter also. Coincidentally I am travelling to Wellington next week to visit my daughter who will be getting her wisdom teeth out. I arranged to meet Tracey next Friday and have organised a visit to Mary Potter when her day programme will be running. I am looking forward to seeing their programme in action and to discuss more with Tracey who has had over 16 years experience in this field.
It was delightful to finish the week with 14 young ladies, budding Beauty Therapists, visiting us on Wednesday from the Elite International School of Beauty. Under the supervision of Stephanie these girls did wonderful work on the 18 patients, who were lined up for a day of pampering. At certain stages of the morning we had two and sometimes three students working on individuals. How decadent!!!
Onwards and upwards!!! And until next time, Viv
28 April 2010 - A blog from June, a patient who attends the Mercy Hospice Auckland Opening Doors Programme.What did you do last week? Oh, I seemed to have quite a busy programme including hospital appointments etc- needless to say I have been sleeping like a log at night. Thursday was the busiest day of all starting with a kind friend calling for me to drive me and others for an appointment in Ponsonby. From there we were driven in a brand new VW van all the way out to Pukekohe.
Wow - on arrival there we sensed the festive atmosphere and were invited to join in morning tea with others to enjoy the delicious jam and cream scones- quite the delicacy of yesteryear. Yum. How pleased I was to not be a diabetic as was a friend sitting near me. For all that it did not stop her enjoying the bounty of the big day! I enjoyed the scones so much that I had to pass by the yummy savouries being passed around.
A little later as I moved outside and was quietly enjoying the party atmosphere and happy happenings going on around me I had a gentle tap on my shoulder and an invitation to partake on a bbq sausage before lunch. "Well, why not," I reasoned as there seemed to be plenty there. "Would I like it with onion, sauce, chutney or whatever?" was my obliging volunteers reply. It was delicious and yes maybe I could have handled more of the onion.
Next was 'get up and go'- no more viewing the action from the side line but an invite to enjoy a ride or five around the track in one of the much loved cars on offer. We were given a choice of colour and I chose the red one thank you. I know that I have climbed into flash cars in a more dignified way before today but no one seemed to mind the inelegant entry. All strapped in and introductions were made it was 'wow, wiz, bang' we are off on a fairly sedate round of the track but then with mutual thumbs up it was 'bombs away' as the speeds gladly soared above the 200s. After the adrenalin-pumping journey we coasted in to our band of ready helpers on hand to extricate the grateful great-grandmother revelling in the fact that she had travelled faster on land than most of her family.
The next highlight was being strapped into the trusty Skyline helicopter for a wonderful fly over the glorious Pukekohe landscape. Being fortunate enough to be in a window seat was an added bonus. Truly a landscape of delight.
Lunchtime continued the pampering with many bbq favourites to savour plus the yummy hand and salad etc rolls. The crown the feast the trays of American Brownies were something else- even to having a choice of which flavour to enjoy. – they were both yummy plus. Truly it all combined in the overwhelming wave of thankfulness for the varied kindness shown by the volunteers who gave up their time and brought such joy – a blessing to us.
Amid the overflow of their graciousness we were all decked out in our beautiful bright blue t-shirts listing the names of the individuals and firms who had a share in our joy.
What I did I do last week? I incubated many, many glorious memories of a self-giving day of over 100 volunteers and thankfulness to our dear heavenly father for the bounty and blessings of a beautiful country.
Thank you, June
2010 is the third year Race for Life has been held and each year it gets bigger and better.
The organizing committee first reconvened in November 2009 and had regular meetings right up to the event on April 8th. In fact, had you been passing the Portside Restaurant at 7am on Wednesday 7th April, you would have witnessed the final meeting of 10 members, fine-tuning the programme for the following day.
The ingredients for such a special event look something like this:
- Leadership
- Commitment
- Generosity
- Time
- Kindness
- Enthusiasm
- Money
- Cars
- Drivers
- Courage
- Dedication
- Love
Mark Cole from Hick Bros and Tim James from Woods, have been car enthusiasts forever. Both men are experienced race drivers and have many contacts in the motorsport industry. These two men used their influence and persuasive powers to convince 23 racing car drivers, including Racing Ray Williams, who holds 150 NZ titles, to come along for the day. We were also fortunate enough to have 16year old Andrew Vincent who is NZ Formula first runner, in tow.
Each driver donated their time, petrol and car for the day and in the process fulfilled the dreams of 40 Mercy Hospice Patients.
Mark and Tim, along with Simon Van Tyl, have been the driving force behind this event for the past three years and have watched it grow accordingly.
Greg Reid, another member of the Hick Bros team, was very active this year in seeking sponsorship. As a result of Greg's tireless work, we were able to raise enough money to cover all costs, including the hiring of Skyworks Helicopters, and have some remaining in the kitty for next year's event.
Donald Webster, the principle partner of Webster Law, is also a stalwart in motorsport. Not only did Donald drive patients all day, but his good wife Penny did the catering along with daughter Christina, plus Nick their son, was trackside attendant.
Youngsters from Westlake Boys, St Kentigern College and Auckland Grammar, all helped out with Trackside duties, domestics or aiding people in and out of the helicopter. Deb Kirton , from Glow, was responsible for organizing the beautifully designed T shirts, free Waiwera water for all patients and worked tirelessly all day at the BBQ kindly donated by Gough Gough and Hamer.
A crew of 30 volunteers were at Pukekohe at 7am on the morning of April 8th, erecting the tent, organizing the generators, and PA systems, all kindly donated by Russell Keach from Hirepool. Simon Van Tyl, an unsung hero, arranged all the cars and drivers and remained at Trackside all day along with his daughter Sam and son?????? Tanya Alderson from Hick Bros coordinated every last detail to make the day the perfect one it was.
The drivers were each gifted a $100 voucher at the end of the day kindly donated by Mini Fuel. A very fitting gesture for the generosity shown by them all.
WHAT DID MERCY HOSPICE HAVE TO DO???
We had to gather together 40 patients and transport them to Pukekohe, so that they could enjoy the excitement that awaited them. Not a difficult task, especially with the help of Giltrap Prestige who organized 3 large vans for us to transport patients to the venue.
We arrived at 11am ( six arrived by Helicopter 20 minutes later). We were hosted to a delicious morning tea of cupcakes, muffins and scones. We were then raced around at 250kph until lunchtime. At 1pm, a delicious lunch of Ham ( on the bone), salad, fresh rolls from Bakers Delight, egg and bacon rolls, and BBQ sausages from the Mad Butcher were served,. A scrumptious brownie, supplied by RIPE DELI in Richmond Rd, was enjoyed with a cuppa!!
Continental Car Services, Giltrap Prestige, plus a few very generous individuals, delighted patients with sports car rides over the lunchtime break. Rides were available in Ferraris, Maseratis, Audi R8's, Vipers, Aston Martins, you name it...
Once food was digested, and the luxury cars left the track, there was time for yet another hour of HOT LAPS!!!
The most difficult decision for the patients was deciding whether to wait in line for a helicopter ride or a fast lap in a racing car!! Grant Southam from Campbell Photography captured the action of the day, for the second year in a row, creating magical memories of a very special event.
So yes, an absolutely awesome day. Race for Life is yet another example of what the community does for Hospice. This simply would not happen , if it weren't for the generosity of our wonderful community. A very dear friend came over for dinner following the event, his comment remains fixed in my mind... "Today I was the one who received a special gift. The opportunity to be a part of a day where in giving of my time, I received so much more".
Until next time, Viv
29 March 2010
What an interesting week we had last week with outings on both Tuesday and Wednesday.
On Tuesday eight of our lovely patients were guests at The Breeze radio station from 11am until midday. They were given a tour of the station by Breakfast Host Robert Scott and a close up and personal view of things at the microphone thanks to Kerry Smith. They also received a few souvenirs. They all returned saying it was both a worthwhile and enjoyable experience.
On Wednesday the time table was slightly changed and the patients were treated to an afternoon at Shirley Pettit's beautiful garden. We were entertained by Shirley's friend Yvonne Bartlett. The music was delightful and the whole experience very appreciated by all those in attendance. The weather was reasonably behaved, however at one stage we had to adjourn to the living room due to a persistent shower of rain. All and all it was a delightful afternoon.
This week we had yet another busy time with House of Camille students pampering us on the Tuesday and eight patients attending a LOOK GOOD FEEL BETTER seminar on Wednesday. They returned from the experience with a decadent array of cosmetics customised for their skin type.
Meanwhile at Opening Doors the remaining patients received more pampering from House of Camille (2 days in a row!!) and were entertained by Argentine guitarist Raul, recommended to us by Derek.
We have one more 'in house week', before Easter and then we will be heading off to Pukekohe for our annual Race for Life on April 8th!! - EXCITING STUFF!!!
Until next time, Viv
11 March 2010
Opening Doors has been on the road for the last few weeks. Both the Tuesday and Wednesday groups ventured over for a picnic at Devonport. Both groups experienced great weather.
The first group caught the 11am ferry to Devonport and were met at the other end by volunteers and the marvelous Mrs Reid. On the first occasion the wind was blowing somewhat so we set up camp on the wharf looking over towards the waterfront, out of the wind!! It was a great spot for the day as we were positioned right behind a café (the staff were most helpful, not only with providing chairs and comforts for the patients, but also for the odd flat-white or hot-chocolate).
On the second occasion, the day was magnificent, the water like a mill pond. We enjoyed a walk along the wharf before sitting in the same area as the week before, and indulged in a wine and a sandwich.
Both days were thoroughly appreciated by patients. John is now determined to take his motorized scooter to the wharf, and venture over to the "other side" for a good look. "Much better than doing housework" he informed me".
This week we celebrated the birthdays of Ana and Rebecca on Wednesday. Wednesday was a very busy day. It is really interesting to see how it has grown in popularity, no doubt because of the introduction of a longer day and the inclusion of lunch.
Next week we have another busy week with patients invited to observe BEHIND the scenes at the Breeze Radio station. Only 10 are able to visit at one time so the remaining patients will be pampered in the usual way at Hospice. On Wednesday, Shirley Petit, one of our volunteers has invited us to visit her garden. Shirley's garden often features in house and garden magazines and has been a garden in the Trinity Garden Trail - so yes, a fabulous garden to visit! A much anticipated trip.
Until next time, Viv
22 February 2010
Introducing lunch on a Wednesday has really changed the dynamics of the day. Last Wednesday we officially launched Lunch on a Wednesday with a fabulous BBQ. The fabulous Toni roped in all her family and provided a truly scrumptious BBQ lunch. The patients were treated to cooked ham, roasted veggies, fresh green salad and fresh bread rolls. What a feast! The day was perfect, as was the food and company. The meal was complimented with a choice of red or white wine. The occasion was enjoyed immensely by all concerned. Thank you Toni. You are a gem!!
This week we have the welcome return of the House of Camille Students. We have quite a pampering day planned with 8 students coming in all, to practice their newly learnt skills. Toni B will join us and using her Nutrimetic products and will treat those interested to a make-over. It is truly fabulous to have these wonderful volunteers donate their time and expertise on such a regular basis. Diane Cochrane, to mention one, will be away for 3 months having enrolled in a course. Up till now, Diane has come every week (and often twice a week) to cut patients hair. We will really miss Diane when she is away. Lynda from Number 18 is sending along two hair-stylists this week to help us out.
It is interesting to note that numbers on a Wednesday and Tuesday have been similar since we started up again this year. It has always been a concern that Tuesday was top heavy, and that Wednesday had room for growth, It would seem that the introduction of lunch on a Wednesday has made a significant difference. Plus of course the persuasive powers of Heather...
We are very thankful to Hammerheads and Cin Cin, two restuarants that donated meals to our patients at Opening Doors for their respective birthday celebrations. And a big thank you to Marie, our new Fundraising staff member, who managed to get 40 tickets to the Top Gear Show on Friday. All the tickets were used and at least 30 of these went to patients in the Opening Doors programme. Thanks Marie.
Until next time, Viv
11 February 2010
Another year begins.It was so good to see all of the familiar faces. It is wonderful to see how everyone enjoyed catching up with each other after a 5 week break. We began with a BBQ on Tuesday to celebrate Alex's 30 years and Rangi's 67. It was a glorious day and celebrated in great style.
At the very point we sat down to have our cordon bleu lunch, the skies opened up!!! It only lasted a few minutes... thankfully.
As of this year, our Wednesday group will run from 10.30am until 1pm. The response this week was fabulous. All those concerned enjoyed staying for the extended period and sharing lunch with fellow patients. It will be interesting to see how Wednesdays grow.
We welcome a number of new patients. It is always heartening to see their responses to the service we offer. What a privilege it is to work with people who have such gratitude!! In the next little while we have a number of outings planned that are specially designed for the outdoors. Let's hope the weather holds out!!
Looking forward to another exciting year!!
Until next time, Viv
16 December 2009
Our last week started with a hiss and a roar. Especially for Ann Pitt who was greeted at her door on Monday morning by four good looking firemen from the new Mt Roskill Station. Ann was taken for a joy ride in the Fire Engine down the motorway at breakneck pace!!! Our Ann is certainly a dark horse. Although she has been in New Zealand for years, she has maintained her beautiful English accent and believe it or not was the very unlikely author of the request to go bleating down the highway at outrageous speeds.
Later in the afternoon she visited the firemen with her husband Barry, to present them with a gift of thanks. The firemen further obliged by giving them both a tour of the new station.
A further request was put forward by the gorgeous Kerryanne who wanted to treat her sisters to a Spa Treatment. It took just a few calls and before we could say "Bob's your uncle", we had the three Lualua girls, being picked up by Ross Stewart of First Class Classics, in his immaculate Damilier. Ross took the girls for a tiki tour of Auckland harbour on Wednesday morning and then dropped them at Number 18 where the lovely Linda and her staff treated the girls to a series of pamperings. They then walked a few metres along to Fusion Cafe where they were treated to lunch. What a fantastic experience for all concerned ...both those who received and for those who gave so much...
Opening Doors final event for the year was our annual Christmas Party. It was a fantastic event with everyone dressed up to suit the occasion. We had Paddy Leishman sing a couple of numbers for us, just a matter of days after he was named top male vocalist in a secondary school production. Our very own Derek Bean then stepped up to the mark and accompanied everyone as we sang Christmas Carols. Father Christmas paid his customary visit distributing presents to one and all. This year all patients received two presents as the Indian Community of Mt Roskill donated presents to all patients. The fabulous Sophie and Cameron, both University students, played the cello for us over lunchtime. We are truly blessed to be gifted with such talented people. After the event Sophie and Cameron offered to Busk for us on the city streets to raise further money for hospice. Believe me; they will make a substantial amount for this great organisation. Isn't it heartening to have the likes of Paddy (16) and Sophie and Cameron (early 20's) to volunteer their time for Mercy Hospice.
Now the meal!! Yes just fantastic. Brenda Valentin, Carol Lambert and Diane Dolan, created scrumptious vegetable dishes, while Julie's husband Roger managed to cook the ham, before going into hospital for an operation!! LUCKY!!! (And yummy!!) The meal was complimented with chicken pieces cooked on sight by volunteers and fresh bread. Carolyn Leightey made some delicious Christmas mince pies. Ian Sharples from Bakers Delight donated a substantial number of his versions of the Christmas treat. Strawberries, Pavlova, ice cream and cream completed the gourmet meal, which was thoroughly enjoyed by one and all.
Patients began leaving about 1.30, exhausted, but their hearts full of joy and thanks.
Next year we begin the ball rolling on the week of Feb 8th!!!
Until next time, Viv
1 December 2009
Might I begin this time with a comment about last Wednesday's gathering. Heather has been doing a wonderful job behind the scenes trying to coerce people into coming on a Wednesday. We had about 13 people last Wednesday and this week will be another big one, with 17 planned to come. The make up of the Wednesday group is very interesting, a majority of patients being male, which is a little unheard of! Our numbers are increasing at the moment with eight new patients joining us last week.
The end of the year is fast approaching, and yes our Christmas Party is planned for the 15th of December and is beginning to take shape. We have a heap of entertainment planned for the patients which will add to the fun and excitement of the day. Opening Doors will finish for the year on the 15th and we will begin again on February the 8th.
We had a very productive Volunteers Meeting a few weeks ago, so good to get feedback so that we can grow and accommodate the needs of our patients. If you ever have any suggestions you would like to share please come forward with them. Interestingly enough I was reading the magazine ALIVE at the weekend and I came across an article written by one of our volunteers, Mike Howie, about the TANGO DANCE. (Mike frequently takes tour parties to Buenos Aires). On hearing this little piece of information Heather suggested why not invite Mike and his friends to do a little demonstration.... So yes, anything goes!
So we do look forward to hearing any new ideas!!!
Until next time, Viv
18 November 2009
What better way to get back into the swing of things than to plan a full on Pamper Me Day on the week after a break!!! (not 'a break', a 42km NY Marathon! -celebratory photo displayed – Ed)
Those who were contributing their skills and therapies for the day had been asked well in advance, so it only took a call on Monday to confirm. Patients were pampered to the nth degree with House of Camille students providing facials, massage, manicures and pedicures for all interested clientele. We had the expertise of Charlotte Cannin, an oncology dietician, Katie Kempthorne, a naturopath and accupunturist, Dada, our yoga and relaxation guru, Sally our nutrimetics makeup artist, and the gorgeous Sarah Breslin , who took photos throughout the morning and provided us with wonderful memories. Wild poppies donated roses for each of the patients and the lovely Angie Redfern provided meals to take home for all of the patients (there is a little story behind this!!!) Kay Barton worked with patients encouraging them to try on outfits supplied by our very own Hospice Shop - 300 on Ponsonby. So it was a very eventful day that was enjoyed by one and all.
On Wednesday instead of Opening Doors we had a very well attended Volunteers Meeting. A number of issues and ideas to improve and fine tune our service were discussed. We have such an amazing group of volunteers who contribute to Opening Doors on many levels. Without these special people we simply could not function.
The annual Christmas Party will be held on Tuesday December the 15th. Opening Doors will then resume on 8th February 2010.
Until next time, Viv
21 October 2009
After a huge day on the 6th Oct at the Thanksgiving luncheon, we had only 14 patients return the following week. Six or eight patients unfortunately were unwell, no doubt due to the patch of unseasonably cold weather. We all managed to have a great time anyway, with Nia the bead lady being the hit of the day with her wonderful bracelet creations.
The following day we had 12 patients who again enjoyed the intimacy of a Wednesday. Seems a funny thing to say, but no matter what the numbers are, Wednesday does have a culture of its own.
This week we only had one day of Opening Doors as we had the Pasta party to organise for the evening of the 21st... It was a fabulous day with 24 patients being pampered by the House of Camille students. It was such a lovely day as patients openly thanked those of us who are venturing to New York. We managed to catch Jan between appointments and she said a few words to the patients as well.
It was very sad to say goodbye to Alison C who touched so many hearts at Opening Doors. What a privilege it is to do the work we do.
In my absence Heather Johnson will be running Opening Doors, so it will be business as usual.
Thank you all for your support of our team.
New York here we come!!!
Until next time, Viv
7 October 2009
This week Opening Doors lived right up to its name!! On Tuesday we opened our doors to what has now become the "Annual Caregivers' Thank You Luncheon". It was a fabulous event.
All patients were encouraged to invite those significant people in their lives who have helped them along their journey. We had over 30 patients attend along with over 60 others who shared the day of celebration. Patients provided the food, a gorgeous array of scrumptious delights. Our amazing Hospice Volunteers organised the logistics of distribution, and the domestics of the kitchen -what an absolutely fantastic team of people. I cannot thank them enough. It is very humbling.
We had flowers for each patient provided by Wildpoppies. Sarah Breslin for Photographers Inc took photos during the morning. The flamboyant Linn Lorkin and Herschile provided us with wonderful entertainment which was complimented by the piano playing of David Thomas. We had Nan's 84th Birthday to celebrate on top of all this, so it was wonderful to have newspaper Correspondent Janie Smith, generously donate a beautifully decorated cake. Janie picked up the skills at a cake decorating course she has recently attended.
The room looked gorgeous, thanks again to the interior decorating skills of the amazing Julie!!
Until next time, Viv
10 September 2009
This week nothing much seemed to change apart from the fact that we held Opening Doors at The Auckland Bowling Club due to the hospice floors under renovation. It was business as usual - our therapists arrived, as did the food, drink and gorgeous patients. Some volunteers were geographically challenged but everyone seemed to arrive at the destination eventually.
Pauline brought with her photos of the day before. She and her two guests, Pat R and Pat W were picked up at Pauline's home and transported to Fortuna Restaurant by Ross from First Class Classics. Pauline was regally attired with glove and crown, and sat inside the back seat of the Daimler dutifully waving to all passers by!! Apparently the meal at Fortuna, Sky City was just what the Doctor ordered... the day could not have been better.
Next week we have a visit to The Auckland Museum and a café lunch planned. The museum staff are most helpful and I am sure the visit will be enjoyed by patients and volunteers alike.
New York Marathon Fundraising Update - It is exciting to know that the first New York Marathon raffle is being drawn this week. An amazing $10,000 was raised from this raffle, thanks to the fabulous generosity of those who donated the fantastic prizes. Good Luck Everyone!
Next week yet another raffle will be launched. There will be seven prizes which are exceptional and the cost of the tickets this time is ONLY $10. Again there is a limited number of tickets which will be available for sale at our Hospice Reception.
Until next time, Viv
27 August 2009
Opening Doors Patients have had a few special treats of late. 57 tickets were issued to Mercy Hospice Auckland for patients to attend Cirque du Soleil's 'Dralion' last Friday evening. By all accounts patients thought it a fantastic experience and were ever so grateful for the generosity shown.
On August 19th Alison and her friend Louise left for their adventure to the South Island. We received a post card and a few texts but will treat you to the detail next time.
We have had a large number of patients attending Opening doors in the last few weeks, especially on Tuesdays. The weather has been obliging so at least this has given patients an option of spending some time on the gorgeous Piazza. We have had special treatments provided by House of Camille Students who genuinely enjoy their time at Mercy. Servilles Hairdressing have had to re look at their commitment to Opening Doors, consequently we were fortunate enough to have the skills of two stylists from yet another local salon NUMBER 18 for the last two weeks. These young ladies too, have really enjoyed their experiences with us.
The next little while will be interesting with Opening Doors having to relocate on the weeks of September the 7th and 14th. We have some exciting things planned!!!
Every other minute of my day is spent trying to persuade people into buying raffle tickets which will go towards our New York Marathon Team fundraising target of $50,000. (Oh, and training for the marathon of course!) Total funds raised by the TeamMercyNY will go towards Mercy Hospice Nurse Education Scholarships.
Until next time, Viv
11 August 2009
What a busy week one might say!!
Alex and I were invited to speak at the Westhaven Rotary Club on Tuesday morning at their Breakfast meeting. Alex is so courageous. He was very tired but managed incredibly well to pass on his message. He spoke so highly of Hospice and the wonderful work done here and charmed his very responsive audience, as he relayed his trip to Queenstown last year in June.
Emma Keeling from TV3 invited patients in groups of six to watch the News process. A group of patients went last Wednesday evening and this week another group will have the pleasure. According to all accounts it was a neat experience and much appreciated. Thanks Emma!!!
Special thanks to Angie Redfern from Ripe Cafe on Richmond Road who provided Lamb Shepherd's Pie for our Tuesday Opening Door patients.
On Wednesday we had the pleasure of welcoming a group of very talented boys and girls from Marist Primary in Herne Bay. There was singing, there was mime, there was ballet, even Michael Jackson (look-alike) made an appearance! Looking around at the faces of our friends I could see how they were touched by the music and dance. Thanks to Heather who arranged their visit.
Until next time, Viv
21 July 2009
Full on pampering was the name of the game on Tuesday 21st July. The House of Camille spoilt us with all their treatments, and to compliment this, we had the expertise of make up therapist Toni from Nutrimetrics. Nia from Beadhold had many patients interested in making jewelery and we were entertained beautifully by Cameron and Sophie with a cello duet!
It has been sad to say goodbye to Heidi our massage therapist, she really was amazing.
We have had a positive response from New Zealand businesses for their help with making Alison's wish of travelling to the South Island come true.
Mid August, Alison sets off on her adventure with her friend Louise. They start by flying to Christchurch thanks to JetStar and stay for two nights at the Clearview Lodge in Harwood (5 STAR!!). From there they travel over to Greymouth on the TransAlpine and stay at the Ashby Motor Inn. The following morning they use a rental car to get themselves to Franz Josef and stay at the Alpine Glacier Motel. On the second to last day they travel to Wanaka Springs and stay a night. Tanya from Destination Queenstown is organising a fabulous Queenstown tourist package. They then fly home.
Thank you so very much for all the wonderful support from the companies who have helped Alison to complete an item on her 'bucket list'.
Until next time, Viv
16 July 2009
Must say that 10 days off work is a great tonic and I do feel quite energised again.
On arrival back at work we trialled our new system of Heather making all the Opening Doors calls. I can now spend more time expanding the possibilities of Opening Doors...working on Wish Lists, getting more therapists on board, and working on making Opening Doors the best it can be in accommodating the needs of the gorgeous patients we have.
Tuesday 14th was of course Bastille Day. We did have fun decking out the Day Room with French paraphernalia collected from around the city!!! We dressed accordingly and donned berets, exclaiming "Bonjour, Bonsoir Voila, and ooh lala" throughout the day!!
The French bread and cheeses added to the authenticity but that is about as far as it went.. Apart from the fact our beautiful Eliane (receptionist) along with Susan (volunteer) gifted us with their adaptation of" Les Marseilles" Appreciated greatly by the large crowd of patients who really enjoyed the ambiance of the day!!
Wednesday was a quiet affair but as always, a lovely alternative for patients who like a more intimate time.
Until next time, Viv
2 July 2009
At Opening Doors this week we had the annual Mid Winter Christmas Party. We had over 30 patients present and we had a hoot of a time. We were entertained by Paddy Leishman and James Leolu (NZ Aria winner 2008). Patients were all dressed in red and showered with gifts, donated by local businesses (and then there was Santa of course!!). I had ten volunteers in the team working tirelessly all day to deliver a 5 star meal to all our wonderful guests... I mentioned the progress in our New York Campaign to all present and within minutes I received a $100 donation towards from one of the patients!!!
This is so exciting!!! NB: Got a further donation today from another patient!!! YES!!!
Until next time, Viv
18 June 2009
Aren't the weeks flying by!!
It has been very eventful in and around Opening doors. The week included a trip to The Medical School where Alex and I spoke to 4th year medical students. It was a privilege to be able to talk to students and to see their responses to our work at Opening Doors. We used the gorgeous photo collage put together by Diane. With the amazing musical sound track it was certainly very appealing for the audience as was the TV3 clip of Track Day.
Alex finished the lecture with a very powerful statement. "Remember when you are Doctors that, like all patients, I am not a kidney, I am not a bowel, but I am Alex and I am living with cancer" Like WOW!!! That boy was so composed and quite an accomplished public speaker!!!
As a result of the lecture, we had at least two or three offers from students who wanted to become volunteers!! Plus the students were really taken with Alex. (He was film star status by the end of the lecture.
The Track Day Cocktail Party was a great success. I am still blown away by the generosity of these people. Without the slightest intention of sounding sanctimonious - it truly is in giving that we receive. Every driver, sponsor, or volunteer on the day felt privileged to be part of the experience and have already put their hand up for next year's event!!!
This week started with a wonderful celebration of June's birthday. We had a big crowd and as a special treat we presented June with a voucher. June will be attending the Royal Navy Band Concert (her favourite) at Bruce Mason Theatre on Monday and then will have High Tea at Smith and Caughey's with 5 of her friends. They will be chauffeur driven for the day and be delivered back to MHA exhausted at 2pm!! Happy Birthday June!
Until next time, Viv