Opening Doors Blog

26 August 2010

We were thoroughly spoilt last week with a visit on Tuesday from The College of Camille students; this was followed the next day by a contingent of 10 girls from the Elite International School of Beauty. Patients were pampered in every which way and students had the luxury of spending quality time with patients, due to the fact there were so many students in attendance. These two beauty schools have been very loyal to Opening Doors, the students are always very respectful and their work very professional.

Musical treats greeted us all on Tuesday morning when Gerald Van Waardenberg and his friend Maria entertained us with a range of duets for flute and viola. Sometimes we are privileged to share the talents of our patients and recently we had a double dose on the very same day, with the gorgeous Leah on the piano accordion and her friend Marie, on the piano. All those present enjoyed a sing song which created a very relaxed and happy atmosphere.

What have been extremely successful at Opening Doors of late is the informal trivia questions we throw at patients. Throw being the operative word!! Patients have to catch the chocolate they have won after answering the question correctly!! Trivia moments are always spontaneous and usually only last for about 5 minutes. However patients have really grown to enjoy the occasions and look forward to a chocolate travelling in their general direction. (Just for your information Bill D wins the “I KNOW THE MOST TRIVIA" prize with Robert, our Chaplain, being a close second!!)

We have a few birthdays coming up in the next few weeks, Marc H turns 40 on the Sept 5th and Joan will turn 80 on the 1st. Joan shares her birthday with Elaine G and Pauline E is a few days later on the 7th. Lots of celebrating in store!!

Until next time, Viv

11 August 2010

Again this week I would like to dedicate my blog to the wonderful work of the volunteers at the Opening Doors Programme.

Fingers had been crossed for rather a long time, in the hope of receiving some complimentary tickets for the stage production of Grease. By Thursday afternoon 40 tickets were in my hot little hands!! We were given tickets to two shows on Sunday. The patients who attended were full of praise for this very professional production, especially Lynette and Alex who had especially requested to see this show!!

Last week we had a very pleasant trip to Florence Court and Eden Gardens. Alma Sax, of Florence Court very graciously took us through the downstairs area of her fabulous home. Unfortunately the weather was rather dismal and the rain started to fall just as we arrived at the Sax residence. However the weather did not dim our spirits at all, as we toured through this rather majestic home. We left Alma at about 11.15am and made our way up the road to Eden Gardens. A good friend of mine has just taken over the ownership of the cafe, "Bloom". Suellen and her husband Ian put on a gorgeous spread for us, even making a cake for our new patient Dina, whose birthday it was the day before. Once lunch was finished some patients ventured through the gardens while others chose to sit and chat in the gorgeous surrounds. The day was even more enjoyable than expected.

This week was a sad week when two of our patients from Opening Doors died. Mr Wang and Joy and for two very different reasons they were unable to speak. Mr Wang speech was difficult because of the language barrier and Joy because of Motor Neurone Disease. However these two were both very much loved at Opening Doors and will be sadly missed. Sometimes we don't need words to communicate with others.

Diane Dolan has been working on a very special project at Opening Doors for the last month and the products have been sensational. The common factor is HANDS !! Watch this space...

Until next time, Viv

2 July 2010

Again this week I would like to dedicate my blog to the wonderful work of the volunteers at the Opening Doors Programme.

The Food:

Caroline L made 40 Xmas mince pies. Brenda V, Diane D, Diana P and Alex W were each asked to cook a plate of roasted vegetables to cater for 40 people. Roger prepared the Ham. Everything else was purchased at the supermarket and prepared and presented magnificently by the team of volunteers beavering away in the kitchen all morning. It was a delicious feast enjoyed thoroughly by one and all.

Neelam, one of our patients prepared an Indian curry dish , this contrasted well with the traditional Xmas Ham and roast vegetables. For dessert patients were treated to Pavlova, berry couli and cream.

The Entertainment:

17 year old Paddy Leishman entertained us with three songs to begin the morning. Opening Doors Xmas Parties would not be the same without the talented Paddy. He has been singing at these events for over 2 years now.

Once Paddy had finished, our very own Derek, played a number of background numbers and then we proceeded into the Christmas Carols. The volunteers (who were not in the kitchen at the time) united in song, and presented a fabulous rendition of "We Wish you a Merry Christmas".

As patients were being served their dinner, The St Mary's Choir, arrived to sing an array of songs, including a few Christmas numbers!!

The Decorations:

Maureen G is a new patient who happens to have a son in law who owns a Party Decoration Company. So yes, the room looked absolutely fantastic with all the decorations for the tables and surrounds provided by Ron, Margaret's Son in law. Ron and his staff spent a good hour and a half yesterday afternoon decorating the room with a wonderful balloon display and then again this morning, Christa, his assistant, was back with table centre pieces.

My sister in law Stephanie C was responsible for all the Santas strategically placed all over the Day room and at the Hospice front entrance. Steph is an extremely talented woman and makes each and every one of the santas herself.

So a break down of the day fully portrays the point that these events would just not happen, if it were not for the expertise and generosity of volunteers. How fortunate we are....

Until next time, Viv

16 June 2010

I have been preoccupied these last few weeks with a special trip we are organising for Marc and his family.

Once a year we plan to tick off a 'biggie' from a patient's bucket list, and this is the one for 2010: Marc, his wife Rachel, four year old daughter and 16 year old son will venture down to Queenstown early July. Thanks to Air New Zealand they will be flying down free of charge. They have been supplied with a mobility vehicle while in the South and a nurse will be with them free of charge for their entire stay (actually my sister!!). They will be staying at Peppers Beacon Hotel for three nights and will participate in every tourist attraction known to mankind, thanks to Destination Queenstown who will be their hosts. The trip has been timed in conjunction with the Queenstown Winter Festival so should be a heap of fun and yes probably cold....but hey!!!

While in Queenstown, Marc and family will venture over to Wanaka for two thrilling days at the Adventure Park in Cardrona. They will be dog sledding with huskies, riding on Monster trucks and Marc may even get an opportunity to experience the Southern Hemisphere Proving Grounds (where new cars, not yet on the market, are tested in snow conditions). They will be staying at the gorgeous Wanaka Springs Lodge, with Lyn and Murray being their hosts.

Marc and his family will have lunch at the historical Cardrona Pub. We are presently working on two restaurants for the evening meals.

This is so exciting for the family and what memories are made of. It has been so exhilarating to be part of planning process. It really is amazing to witness the generosity of so many – a very huge thank you to all our supporters and sponsors who are helping us to make this happen.

Until next time, Viv

2 June 2010

Every six months I enjoy the privilege to share what we do at Opening Doors with the new group of Volunteers. As I watch the DVD's with those present, I feel immensely proud of what Mercy Hospice is doing for their patients.

As I point out each time, none of this would happen if it were not for the volunteers. The amount of time they give to the Opening Doors programme is astounding. Every Tuesday and Wednesday we have a hairdresser, a massage therapist, a musician, an artist, and a nail therapist who all share their talents with patients who are ever so grateful. This is not to mention the volunteers, who come in weekly to organize morning teas, and lunch for patients within the programme.

We can often get complacent about what is being said by patients receiving the therapies. However this week, I was struck with just how any patients were expressing their thanks for what is being done for them. Neelam brought in a sample of her latest curry, for me to taste, so that she could gage whether it was mild enough to serve to all patients. ( yes she intends to make lunch for all patients in a few weeks time). Elaine said how she thought it would be a great idea if TVNZ came in to see what happens at Opening Doors so people realize that Hospice is not the end but the start of a different journey. Helen Scott and her son ran a raffle outside of Hospice and raised over $300, just to express their thanks and provide a way to give back. John said today that his life had totally opened up since he had been coming to Opening Doors, he had been on a boat to Devonport, toured The Breeze Radio Station, been driven around Pukekohe at 250km per hour and been taken from Mechanics Bay to Pukekohe in a helicopter, all in 4 months!! Almost every week Pat Reddy brings some home baking to contribute to our morning tea, just because she wants to.... There are many more examples and it is not until we sit down and think about do we realize just how much our service is appreciated.

Yes, it certainly is a privilege to work for MHA.

Until next time, Viv

19 May 2010

We are just going to have to concentrate on this week at Opening Doors as last week is a blurr!! This is no doubt due to how busy we have been this week!!

Every 6 months at Opening Doors we put on a full on Pamper Me Day. This day differs from any other because of the nature of how this day works. Patients often do not get a chance to consult with therapists who practice alternative medicines so we use this day as an opportunity for patients to listen, on a one to one basis to consultants who have something different to offer. This week we had a Colour therapist, a kinesiologist, a reflexologist, a lady who practices Ayervedic Medicine, a Colour and Style specialist, a Naturopath, and for good measure an Oncology Dietican from Ascot Hospital. The girls from College of Camille did the pampering along with Toni Briden who 'made up' all those interested, using Nutrimetics. All patients present on the day received a gorgeous tulip provided by Wildpoppies, and a scrumptious lunch. It was really a most enjoyable day and one where patients discovered other means of improving their quality of life. Images of the day were captured by Charlton, from Photographers Inc , who popped down for an hour to provide us with beautiful memories of a very special day.

Wednesday was an interesting day. We began Opening Doors as per usual, but with a Nursing Education course on site and an intended lunch for ADHB members at 1pm, we decided it best to vacate the premises and took Opening Doors, patients and volunteers in tow, to the Cavalier for lunch. What a treat!! (Great idea Julie!!). The patients thoroughly enjoyed the change of venue, the food and the ambience. We were treated to a delicious lunch of savouries, spring rolls, french fries, and gourmet sandwiches, followed by a plate of lamingtons!! The patients were delighted.

So all in all, a great week, where patients who attended were treated to something a little bit different.

Until next time, Viv

6 May 2010

At Opening Doors, we are trying continually to improve the service we provide for our patients, as is the way in all areas of Mercy Hospice work. Over the last few weeks we have introduced what we now refer to as the Sharing group, (for want of a better name). It has been observed over the last, almost three years, that there are certainly a number of patients who want to talk and hear about issues affecting their lives at this time. By establishing this group, we have provided a forum where patients can discuss delicate issues, in a safe arena, with qualified staff. The manner in which this is being achieved is certainly a work in progress, and over the last few weeks we have realised the need for more structure and guidelines to help the discussion to move in areas that will be helpful to the patients concerned. We are very fortunate to have the expertise on the staff, who can direct these meetings so that the experience is rewarding.

Dada from Ananda Marga in Grey Lynn has been helping out at Opening Doors since it began in Oct 2008. Unfortunately Dada has been transferred to a Yoga Retreat in the Blue Mountains and will no longer be able to join us on a Tuesday. Patients will sadly miss his presence and his skills as they found the visualisation and meditation most helpful. We are working on a replacement.

On Tuesday this week, Tracey Smith from Mary Potter Hospice came to visit us at Opening Doors to see how the programme runs. It was great to have Tracey there for the day and to chat about what is happening at Mary Potter also. Coincidentally I am travelling to Wellington next week to visit my daughter who will be getting her wisdom teeth out. I arranged to meet Tracey next Friday and have organised a visit to Mary Potter when her day programme will be running. I am looking forward to seeing their programme in action and to discuss more with Tracey who has had over 16 years experience in this field.

It was delightful to finish the week with 14 young ladies, budding Beauty Therapists, visiting us on Wednesday from the Elite International School of Beauty. Under the supervision of Stephanie these girls did wonderful work on the 18 patients, who were lined up for a day of pampering. At certain stages of the morning we had two and sometimes three students working on individuals. How decadent!!!

Onwards and upwards!!! And until next time, Viv

28 April 2010 - A blog from June, a patient who attends the Mercy Hospice Auckland Opening Doors Programme.

What did you do last week? Oh, I seemed to have quite a busy programme including hospital appointments etc- needless to say I have been sleeping like a log at night. Thursday was the busiest day of all starting with a kind friend calling for me to drive me and others for an appointment in Ponsonby. From there we were driven in a brand new VW van all the way out to Pukekohe.

Wow - on arrival there we sensed the festive atmosphere and were invited to join in morning tea with others to enjoy the delicious jam and cream scones- quite the delicacy of yesteryear. Yum. How pleased I was to not be a diabetic as was a friend sitting near me. For all that it did not stop her enjoying the bounty of the big day! I enjoyed the scones so much that I had to pass by the yummy savouries being passed around.

A little later as I moved outside and was quietly enjoying the party atmosphere and happy happenings going on around me I had a gentle tap on my shoulder and an invitation to partake on a bbq sausage before lunch. "Well, why not," I reasoned as there seemed to be plenty there. "Would I like it with onion, sauce, chutney or whatever?" was my obliging volunteers reply. It was delicious and yes maybe I could have handled more of the onion.

Next was 'get up and go'- no more viewing the action from the side line but an invite to enjoy a ride or five around the track in one of the much loved cars on offer. We were given a choice of colour and I chose the red one thank you. I know that I have climbed into flash cars in a more dignified way before today but no one seemed to mind the inelegant entry. All strapped in and introductions were made it was 'wow, wiz, bang' we are off on a fairly sedate round of the track but then with mutual thumbs up it was 'bombs away' as the speeds gladly soared above the 200s. After the adrenalin-pumping journey we coasted in to our band of ready helpers on hand to extricate the grateful great-grandmother revelling in the fact that she had travelled faster on land than most of her family.

The next highlight was being strapped into the trusty Skyline helicopter for a wonderful fly over the glorious Pukekohe landscape. Being fortunate enough to be in a window seat was an added bonus. Truly a landscape of delight.

Lunchtime continued the pampering with many bbq favourites to savour plus the yummy hand and salad etc rolls. The crown the feast the trays of American Brownies were something else- even to having a choice of which flavour to enjoy. – they were both yummy plus. Truly it all combined in the overwhelming wave of thankfulness for the varied kindness shown by the volunteers who gave up their time and brought such joy – a blessing to us.

Amid the overflow of their graciousness we were all decked out in our beautiful bright blue t-shirts listing the names of the individuals and firms who had a share in our joy.

What I did I do last week? I incubated many, many glorious memories of a self-giving day of over 100 volunteers and thankfulness to our dear heavenly father for the bounty and blessings of a beautiful country.

Thank you, June

9 April 2010 - A fantastic summary of a simply awesome day.

2010 is the third year Race for Life has been held and each year it gets bigger and better.

The organizing committee first reconvened in November 2009 and had regular meetings right up to the event on April 8th. In fact, had you been passing the Portside Restaurant at 7am on Wednesday 7th April, you would have witnessed the final meeting of 10 members, fine-tuning the programme for the following day.

The ingredients for such a special event look something like this:

1. Leadership
2. Commitment
3. Generosity
4. Time
5. Kindness
6. Enthusiasm
7. Money
8. Cars
9. Drivers
10. Courage
11. Dedication
12. Love

...the list goes on.

Mark Cole from Hick Bros and Tim James from Woods, have been car enthusiasts forever. Both men are experienced race drivers and have many contacts in the motorsport industry. These two men used their influence and persuasive powers to convince 23 racing car drivers, including Racing Ray Williams, who holds 150 NZ titles, to come along for the day. We were also fortunate enough to have 16year old Andrew Vincent who is NZ Formula first runner, in tow.

Each driver donated their time, petrol and car for the day and in the process fulfilled the dreams of 40 Mercy Hospice Patients.

Mark and Tim, along with Simon Van Tyl, have been the driving force behind this event for the past three years and have watched it grow accordingly.

Greg Reid, another member of the Hick Bros team, was very active this year in seeking sponsorship. As a result of Greg's tireless work, we were able to raise enough money to cover all costs, including the hiring of Skyworks Helicopters, and have some remaining in the kitty for next year's event.

Donald Webster, the principle partner of Webster Law, is also a stalwart in motorsport. Not only did Donald drive patients all day, but his good wife Penny did the catering along with daughter Christina, plus Nick their son, was trackside attendant.

Youngsters from Westlake Boys, St Kentigern College and Auckland Grammar, all helped out with Trackside duties, domestics or aiding people in and out of the helicopter. Deb Kirton , from Glow, was responsible for organizing the beautifully designed T shirts, free Waiwera water for all patients and worked tirelessly all day at the BBQ kindly donated by Gough Gough and Hamer.

A crew of 30 volunteers were at Pukekohe at 7am on the morning of April 8th, erecting the tent, organizing the generators, and PA systems, all kindly donated by Russell Keach from Hirepool. Simon Van Tyl, an unsung hero, arranged all the cars and drivers and remained at Trackside all day along with his daughter Sam and son?????? Tanya Alderson from Hick Bros coordinated every last detail to make the day the perfect one it was.

The drivers were each gifted a $100 voucher at the end of the day kindly donated by Mini Fuel. A very fitting gesture for the generosity shown by them all.

WHAT DID MERCY HOSPICE HAVE TO DO???
We had to gather together 40 patients and transport them to Pukekohe, so that they could enjoy the excitement that awaited them. Not a difficult task, especially with the help of Giltrap Prestige who organized 3 large vans for us to transport patients to the venue.

We arrived at 11am ( six arrived by Helicopter 20 minutes later). We were hosted to a delicious morning tea of cupcakes, muffins and scones. We were then raced around at 250kph until lunchtime. At 1pm, a delicious lunch of Ham ( on the bone), salad, fresh rolls from Bakers Delight, egg and bacon rolls, and BBQ sausages from the Mad Butcher were served,. A scrumptious brownie, supplied by RIPE DELI in Richmond Rd, was enjoyed with a cuppa!!

Continental Car Services, Giltrap Prestige, plus a few very generous individuals, delighted patients with sports car rides over the lunchtime break. Rides were available in Ferraris, Maseratis, Audi R8's, Vipers, Aston Martins, you name it...

Once food was digested, and the luxury cars left the track, there was time for yet another hour of HOT LAPS!!!

The most difficult decision for the patients was deciding whether to wait in line for a helicopter ride or a fast lap in a racing car!! Grant Southam from Campbell Photography captured the action of the day, for the second year in a row, creating magical memories of a very special event.

So yes, an absolutely awesome day. Race for Life is yet another example of what the community does for Hospice. This simply would not happen , if it weren't for the generosity of our wonderful community. A very dear friend came over for dinner following the event, his comment remains fixed in my mind... "Today I was the one who received a special gift. The opportunity to be a part of a day where in giving of my time, I received so much more".

Until next time, Viv

29 March 2010

What an interesting week we had last week with outings on both Tuesday and Wednesday.

On Tuesday eight of our lovely patients were guests at The Breeze radio station from 11am until midday. They were given a tour of the station by Breakfast Host Robert Scott and a close up and personal view of things at the microphone thanks to Kerry Smith. They also received a few souvenirs. They all returned saying it was both a worthwhile and enjoyable experience.

On Wednesday the time table was slightly changed and the patients were treated to an afternoon at Shirley Pettit's beautiful garden. We were entertained by Shirley's friend Yvonne Bartlett. The music was delightful and the whole experience very appreciated by all those in attendance. The weather was reasonably behaved, however at one stage we had to adjourn to the living room due to a persistent shower of rain. All and all it was a delightful afternoon.

This week we had yet another busy time with House of Camille students pampering us on the Tuesday and eight patients attending a LOOK GOOD FEEL BETTER seminar on Wednesday. They returned from the experience with a decadent array of cosmetics customised for their skin type.

Meanwhile at Opening Doors the remaining patients received more pampering from House of Camille (2 days in a row!!) and were entertained by Argentine guitarist Raul, recommended to us by Derek.

We have one more 'in house week', before Easter and then we will be heading off to Pukekohe for our annual Race for Life on April 8th!! - EXCITING STUFF!!!

Until next time, Viv

11 March 2010

Opening Doors has been on the road for the last few weeks. Both the Tuesday and Wednesday groups ventured over for a picnic at Devonport. Both groups experienced great weather.

The first group caught the 11am ferry to Devonport and were met at the other end by volunteers and the marvelous Mrs Reid. On the first occasion the wind was blowing somewhat so we set up camp on the wharf looking over towards the waterfront, out of the wind!! It was a great spot for the day as we were positioned right behind a café (the staff were most helpful, not only with providing chairs and comforts for the patients, but also for the odd flat-white or hot-chocolate).

On the second occasion, the day was magnificent, the water like a mill pond. We enjoyed a walk along the wharf before sitting in the same area as the week before, and indulged in a wine and a sandwich.

Both days were thoroughly appreciated by patients. John is now determined to take his motorized scooter to the wharf, and venture over to the "other side" for a good look. "Much better than doing housework" he informed me".

This week we celebrated the birthdays of Ana and Rebecca on Wednesday. Wednesday was a very busy day. It is really interesting to see how it has grown in popularity, no doubt because of the introduction of a longer day and the inclusion of lunch.

Next week we have another busy week with patients invited to observe BEHIND the scenes at the Breeze Radio station. Only 10 are able to visit at one time so the remaining patients will be pampered in the usual way at Hospice. On Wednesday, Shirley Petit, one of our volunteers has invited us to visit her garden. Shirley's garden often features in house and garden magazines and has been a garden in the Trinity Garden Trail - so yes, a fabulous garden to visit! A much anticipated trip.

Until next time, Viv

22 February 2010

Introducing lunch on a Wednesday has really changed the dynamics of the day. Last Wednesday we officially launched Lunch on a Wednesday with a fabulous BBQ. The fabulous Toni roped in all her family and provided a truly scrumptious BBQ lunch. The patients were treated to cooked ham, roasted veggies, fresh green salad and fresh bread rolls. What a feast! The day was perfect, as was the food and company. The meal was complimented with a choice of red or white wine. The occasion was enjoyed immensely by all concerned. Thank you Toni. You are a gem!!

This week we have the welcome return of the House of Camille Students. We have quite a pampering day planned with 8 students coming in all, to practice their newly learnt skills. Toni B will join us and using her Nutrimetic products and will treat those interested to a make-over. It is truly fabulous to have these wonderful volunteers donate their time and expertise on such a regular basis. Diane Cochrane, to mention one, will be away for 3 months having enrolled in a course. Up till now, Diane has come every week (and often twice a week) to cut patients hair. We will really miss Diane when she is away. Lynda from Number 18 is sending along two hair-stylists this week to help us out.

It is interesting to note that numbers on a Wednesday and Tuesday have been similar since we started up again this year. It has always been a concern that Tuesday was top heavy, and that Wednesday had room for growth, It would seem that the introduction of lunch on a Wednesday has made a significant difference. Plus of course the persuasive powers of Heather...

We are very thankful to Hammerheads and Cin Cin, two restuarants that donated meals to our patients at Opening Doors for their respective birthday celebrations. And a big thank you to Marie, our new Fundraising staff member, who managed to get 40 tickets to the Top Gear Show on Friday. All the tickets were used and at least 30 of these went to patients in the Opening Doors programme. Thanks Marie.

Until next time, Viv

11 February 2010

Another year begins.

It was so good to see all of the familiar faces. It is wonderful to see how everyone enjoyed catching up with each other after a 5 week break. We began with a BBQ on Tuesday to celebrate Alex's 30 years and Rangi's 67. It was a glorious day and celebrated in great style.

At the very point we sat down to have our cordon bleu lunch, the skies opened up!!! It only lasted a few minutes... thankfully.

As of this year, our Wednesday group will run from 10.30am until 1pm. The response this week was fabulous. All those concerned enjoyed staying for the extended period and sharing lunch with fellow patients. It will be interesting to see how Wednesdays grow.

We welcome a number of new patients. It is always heartening to see their responses to the service we offer. What a privilege it is to work with people who have such gratitude!! In the next little while we have a number of outings planned that are specially designed for the outdoors. Let's hope the weather holds out!!

Looking forward to another exciting year!!

Until next time, Viv

16 December 2009

Our last week started with a hiss and a roar. Especially for Ann Pitt who was greeted at her door on Monday morning by four good looking firemen from the new Mt Roskill Station. Ann was taken for a joy ride in the Fire Engine down the motorway at breakneck pace!!! Our Ann is certainly a dark horse. Although she has been in New Zealand for years, she has maintained her beautiful English accent and believe it or not was the very unlikely author of the request to go bleating down the highway at outrageous speeds.

Later in the afternoon she visited the firemen with her husband Barry, to present them with a gift of thanks. The firemen further obliged by giving them both a tour of the new station.

A further request was put forward by the gorgeous Kerryanne who wanted to treat her sisters to a Spa Treatment. It took just a few calls and before we could say "Bob's your uncle", we had the three Lualua girls, being picked up by Ross Stewart of First Class Classics, in his immaculate Damilier. Ross took the girls for a tiki tour of Auckland harbour on Wednesday morning and then dropped them at Number 18 where the lovely Linda and her staff treated the girls to a series of pamperings. They then walked a few metres along to Fusion Cafe where they were treated to lunch. What a fantastic experience for all concerned ...both those who received and for those who gave so much...

Opening Doors final event for the year was our annual Christmas Party. It was a fantastic event with everyone dressed up to suit the occasion. We had Paddy Leishman sing a couple of numbers for us, just a matter of days after he was named top male vocalist in a secondary school production. Our very own Derek Bean then stepped up to the mark and accompanied everyone as we sang Christmas Carols. Father Christmas paid his customary visit distributing presents to one and all. This year all patients received two presents as the Indian Community of Mt Roskill donated presents to all patients. The fabulous Sophie and Cameron, both University students, played the cello for us over lunchtime. We are truly blessed to be gifted with such talented people. After the event Sophie and Cameron offered to Busk for us on the city streets to raise further money for hospice. Believe me; they will make a substantial amount for this great organisation. Isn't it heartening to have the likes of Paddy (16) and Sophie and Cameron (early 20's) to volunteer their time for Mercy Hospice.

Now the meal!! Yes just fantastic. Brenda Valentin, Carol Lambert and Diane Dolan, created scrumptious vegetable dishes, while Julie's husband Roger managed to cook the ham, before going into hospital for an operation!! LUCKY!!! (And yummy!!) The meal was complimented with chicken pieces cooked on sight by volunteers and fresh bread. Carolyn Leightey made some delicious Christmas mince pies. Ian Sharples from Bakers Delight donated a substantial number of his versions of the Christmas treat. Strawberries, Pavlova, ice cream and cream completed the gourmet meal, which was thoroughly enjoyed by one and all.

Patients began leaving about 1.30, exhausted, but their hearts full of joy and thanks.

Next year we begin the ball rolling on the week of Feb 8th!!!

Until next time, Viv

1 December 2009

Might I begin this time with a comment about last Wednesday's gathering. Heather has been doing a wonderful job behind the scenes trying to coerce people into coming on a Wednesday. We had about 13 people last Wednesday and this week will be another big one, with 17 planned to come. The make up of the Wednesday group is very interesting, a majority of patients being male, which is a little unheard of! Our numbers are increasing at the moment with eight new patients joining us last week.

The end of the year is fast approaching, and yes our Christmas Party is planned for the 15th of December and is beginning to take shape. We have a heap of entertainment planned for the patients which will add to the fun and excitement of the day. Opening Doors will finish for the year on the 15th and we will begin again on February the 8th.

We had a very productive Volunteers Meeting a few weeks ago, so good to get feedback so that we can grow and accommodate the needs of our patients. If you ever have any suggestions you would like to share please come forward with them. Interestingly enough I was reading the magazine ALIVE at the weekend and I came across an article written by one of our volunteers, Mike Howie, about the TANGO DANCE. (Mike frequently takes tour parties to Buenos Aires). On hearing this little piece of information Heather suggested why not invite Mike and his friends to do a little demonstration.... So yes, anything goes!

So we do look forward to hearing any new ideas!!!

Until next time, Viv

18 November 2009

What better way to get back into the swing of things than to plan a full on Pamper Me Day on the week after a break!!! (not 'a break', a 42km NY Marathon! -celebratory photo displayed – Ed)

Those who were contributing their skills and therapies for the day had been asked well in advance, so it only took a call on Monday to confirm. Patients were pampered to the nth degree with House of Camille students providing facials, massage, manicures and pedicures for all interested clientele. We had the expertise of Charlotte Cannin, an oncology dietician, Katie Kempthorne, a naturopath and accupunturist, Dada, our yoga and relaxation guru, Sally our nutrimetics makeup artist, and the gorgeous Sarah Breslin , who took photos throughout the morning and provided us with wonderful memories. Wild poppies donated roses for each of the patients and the lovely Angie Redfern provided meals to take home for all of the patients (there is a little story behind this!!!) Kay Barton worked with patients encouraging them to try on outfits supplied by our very own Hospice Shop - 300 on Ponsonby. So it was a very eventful day that was enjoyed by one and all.

On Wednesday instead of Opening Doors we had a very well attended Volunteers Meeting. A number of issues and ideas to improve and fine tune our service were discussed. We have such an amazing group of volunteers who contribute to Opening Doors on many levels. Without these special people we simply could not function.

The annual Christmas Party will be held on Tuesday December the 15th. Opening Doors will then resume on 8th February 2010.

Until next time, Viv

21 October 2009

After a huge day on the 6th Oct at the Thanksgiving luncheon, we had only 14 patients return the following week. Six or eight patients unfortunately were unwell, no doubt due to the patch of unseasonably cold weather. We all managed to have a great time anyway, with Nia the bead lady being the hit of the day with her wonderful bracelet creations.

The following day we had 12 patients who again enjoyed the intimacy of a Wednesday. Seems a funny thing to say, but no matter what the numbers are, Wednesday does have a culture of its own.

This week we only had one day of Opening Doors as we had the Pasta party to organise for the evening of the 21st... It was a fabulous day with 24 patients being pampered by the House of Camille students. It was such a lovely day as patients openly thanked those of us who are venturing to New York. We managed to catch Jan between appointments and she said a few words to the patients as well.

It was very sad to say goodbye to Alison C who touched so many hearts at Opening Doors. What a privilege it is to do the work we do.

In my absence Heather Johnson will be running Opening Doors, so it will be business as usual.

Thank you all for your support of our team.
New York here we come!!!

Until next time, Viv

7 October 2009

This week Opening Doors lived right up to its name!! On Tuesday we opened our doors to what has now become the "Annual Caregivers' Thank You Luncheon". It was a fabulous event.

All patients were encouraged to invite those significant people in their lives who have helped them along their journey. We had over 30 patients attend along with over 60 others who shared the day of celebration. Patients provided the food, a gorgeous array of scrumptious delights. Our amazing Hospice Volunteers organised the logistics of distribution, and the domestics of the kitchen -what an absolutely fantastic team of people. I cannot thank them enough. It is very humbling.

We had flowers for each patient provided by Wildpoppies. Sarah Breslin for Photographers Inc took photos during the morning. The flamboyant Linn Lorkin and Herschile provided us with wonderful entertainment which was complimented by the piano playing of David Thomas. We had Nan's 84th Birthday to celebrate on top of all this, so it was wonderful to have newspaper Correspondent Janie Smith, generously donate a beautifully decorated cake. Janie picked up the skills at a cake decorating course she has recently attended.

The room looked gorgeous, thanks again to the interior decorating skills of the amazing Julie!!

Until next time, Viv

10 September 2009

This week nothing much seemed to change apart from the fact that we held Opening Doors at The Auckland Bowling Club due to the hospice floors under renovation. It was business as usual - our therapists arrived, as did the food, drink and gorgeous patients. Some volunteers were geographically challenged but everyone seemed to arrive at the destination eventually.

Pauline brought with her photos of the day before. She and her two guests, Pat R and Pat W were picked up at Pauline's home and transported to Fortuna Restaurant by Ross from First Class Classics. Pauline was regally attired with glove and crown, and sat inside the back seat of the Daimler dutifully waving to all passers by!! Apparently the meal at Fortuna, Sky City was just what the Doctor ordered... the day could not have been better.

Next week we have a visit to The Auckland Museum and a café lunch planned. The museum staff are most helpful and I am sure the visit will be enjoyed by patients and volunteers alike.

New York Marathon Fundraising Update - It is exciting to know that the first New York Marathon raffle is being drawn this week. An amazing $10,000 was raised from this raffle, thanks to the fabulous generosity of those who donated the fantastic prizes. Good Luck Everyone!

Next week yet another raffle will be launched. There will be seven prizes which are exceptional and the cost of the tickets this time is ONLY $10. Again there is a limited number of tickets which will be available for sale at our Hospice Reception.

Until next time, Viv

27 August 2009

Opening Doors Patients have had a few special treats of late. 57 tickets were issued to Mercy Hospice Auckland for patients to attend Cirque du Soleil's 'Dralion' last Friday evening. By all accounts patients thought it a fantastic experience and were ever so grateful for the generosity shown.

On August 19th Alison and her friend Louise left for their adventure to the South Island. We received a post card and a few texts but will treat you to the detail next time.

We have had a large number of patients attending Opening doors in the last few weeks, especially on Tuesdays. The weather has been obliging so at least this has given patients an option of spending some time on the gorgeous Piazza. We have had special treatments provided by House of Camille Students who genuinely enjoy their time at Mercy. Servilles Hairdressing have had to re look at their commitment to Opening Doors, consequently we were fortunate enough to have the skills of two stylists from yet another local salon NUMBER 18 for the last two weeks. These young ladies too, have really enjoyed their experiences with us.

The next little while will be interesting with Opening Doors having to relocate on the weeks of September the 7th and 14th. We have some exciting things planned!!!

Every other minute of my day is spent trying to persuade people into buying raffle tickets which will go towards our New York Marathon Team fundraising target of $50,000. (Oh, and training for the marathon of course!) Total funds raised by the TeamMercyNY will go towards Mercy Hospice Nurse Education Scholarships.

Until next time, Viv

11 August 2009

What a busy week one might say!!

Alex and I were invited to speak at the Westhaven Rotary Club on Tuesday morning at their Breakfast meeting. Alex is so courageous. He was very tired but managed incredibly well to pass on his message. He spoke so highly of Hospice and the wonderful work done here and charmed his very responsive audience, as he relayed his trip to Queenstown last year in June.

Emma Keeling from TV3 invited patients in groups of six to watch the News process. A group of patients went last Wednesday evening and this week another group will have the pleasure. According to all accounts it was a neat experience and much appreciated. Thanks Emma!!!

Special thanks to Angie Redfern from Ripe Cafe on Richmond Road who provided Lamb Shepherd's Pie for our Tuesday Opening Door patients.

On Wednesday we had the pleasure of welcoming a group of very talented boys and girls from Marist Primary in Herne Bay. There was singing, there was mime, there was ballet, even Michael Jackson (look-alike) made an appearance! Looking around at the faces of our friends I could see how they were touched by the music and dance. Thanks to Heather who arranged their visit.

Until next time, Viv

21 July 2009
Full on pampering was the name of the game on Tuesday 21st July. The House of Camille spoilt us with all their treatments, and to compliment this, we had the expertise of make up therapist Toni from Nutrimetrics. Nia from Beadhold had many patients interested in making jewelery and we were entertained beautifully by Cameron and Sophie with a cello duet!

It has been sad to say goodbye to Heidi our massage therapist, she really was amazing.

We have had a positive response from New Zealand businesses for their help with making Alison's wish of travelling to the South Island come true.

Mid August, Alison sets off on her adventure with her friend Louise. They start by flying to Christchurch thanks to JetStar and stay for two nights at the Clearview Lodge in Harwood (5 STAR!!). From there they travel over to Greymouth on the TransAlpine and stay at the Ashby Motor Inn. The following morning they use a rental car to get themselves to Franz Josef and stay at the Alpine Glacier Motel. On the second to last day they travel to Wanaka Springs and stay a night. Tanya from Destination Queenstown is organising a fabulous Queenstown tourist package. They then fly home.

Thank you so very much for all the wonderful support from the companies who have helped Alison to complete an item on her 'bucket list'.

Until next time, Viv

16 July 2009

Must say that 10 days off work is a great tonic and I do feel quite energised again.
On arrival back at work we trialled our new system of Heather making all the Opening Doors calls. I can now spend more time expanding the possibilities of Opening Doors...working on Wish Lists, getting more therapists on board, and working on making Opening Doors the best it can be in accommodating the needs of the gorgeous patients we have.

Tuesday 14th was of course Bastille Day. We did have fun decking out the Day Room with French paraphernalia collected from around the city!!! We dressed accordingly and donned berets, exclaiming "Bonjour, Bonsoir Voila, and ooh lala" throughout the day!!
The French bread and cheeses added to the authenticity but that is about as far as it went.. Apart from the fact our beautiful Eliane (receptionist) along with Susan (volunteer) gifted us with their adaptation of" Les Marseilles" Appreciated greatly by the large crowd of patients who really enjoyed the ambiance of the day!!

Wednesday was a quiet affair but as always, a lovely alternative for patients who like a more intimate time.

Until next time, Viv

2 July 2009

At Opening Doors this week we had the annual Mid Winter Christmas Party. We had over 30 patients present and we had a hoot of a time. We were entertained by Paddy Leishman and James Leolu (NZ Aria winner 2008). Patients were all dressed in red and showered with gifts, donated by local businesses (and then there was Santa of course!!). I had ten volunteers in the team working tirelessly all day to deliver a 5 star meal to all our wonderful guests... I mentioned the progress in our New York Campaign to all present and within minutes I received a $100 donation towards from one of the patients!!!

This is so exciting!!! NB: Got a further donation today from another patient!!! YES!!!

Until next time, Viv

18 June 2009

Aren't the weeks flying by!!
It has been very eventful in and around Opening doors. The week included a trip to The Medical School where Alex and I spoke to 4th year medical students. It was a privilege to be able to talk to students and to see their responses to our work at Opening Doors. We used the gorgeous photo collage put together by Diane. With the amazing musical sound track it was certainly very appealing for the audience as was the TV3 clip of Track Day.

Alex finished the lecture with a very powerful statement. "Remember when you are Doctors that, like all patients, I am not a kidney, I am not a bowel, but I am Alex and I am living with cancer" Like WOW!!! That boy was so composed and quite an accomplished public speaker!!!

As a result of the lecture, we had at least two or three offers from students who wanted to become volunteers!! Plus the students were really taken with Alex. (He was film star status by the end of the lecture.

The Track Day Cocktail Party was a great success. I am still blown away by the generosity of these people. Without the slightest intention of sounding sanctimonious - it truly is in giving that we receive. Every driver, sponsor, or volunteer on the day felt privileged to be part of the experience and have already put their hand up for next year's event!!!

This week started with a wonderful celebration of June's birthday. We had a big crowd and as a special treat we presented June with a voucher. June will be attending the Royal Navy Band Concert (her favourite) at Bruce Mason Theatre on Monday and then will have High Tea at Smith and Caughey's with 5 of her friends. They will be chauffeur driven for the day and be delivered back to MHA exhausted at 2pm!! Happy Birthday June!

Until next time, Viv

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